That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

Women are being told to wait, stay quiet, and keep their desires small, but what if pleasure could be something you choose on your own terms? Anna Grosman, founder of Her Confidant, shares how she built Australia’s only female-led agency offering curated intimate experiences for women and couples, and why more women than ever are quietly reclaiming intimacy, confidence, and connection. From her own journey growing up in a conservative family to creating two businesses in this space, Anna opens up about the stigma she’s fighting, the women she serves, and the life-changing conversations happening before a booking ever takes place. She explains how Her Confidant works, why every client begins with a deeply personal consultation, and how the experience is designed to feel safe, respectful, and fully tailored from start to finish. You’ll discover: What sexual experiences at Her Confidant look like How Anna matches clients with companions using intuition, experience, and careful screening The role trauma awareness, consent, and trust play in creating a safe sexual experience Why some clients say this experience has done more for them than years of therapy How intimacy, touch, and pleasure can support confidence at every age Anna Grosman is the founder of Her Confidant, Australia’s only female-led agency providing curated intimate experiences for women and couples.    Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreHer Confidant Instagram Her Confidant Website Her Confidant LinkedInSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome to the first episode of Ask a Sexologist, where listeners send in their questions, stories and dilemmas, and Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, weighs in. Today's episode explores catfishing. Submit your anonymous question for the podcast   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Emily is joined by sexologist and sex educator Lex Nyree to unpack humiliation kinks. They cover what counts as humiliation versus degradation, why some people are drawn to it, and how to explore it without crossing into harm. The conversation also goes deep on consent, aftercare, and why having this kink does not automatically mean someone has low self-esteem. Key topics Lex defines humiliation kink. Examples discussed include verbal humiliation, small penis humiliation, service humiliation, public embarrassment scenarios, forced feminisation, and financial domination. Emily and Lex discuss why humiliation kink can be appealing, including the release of control, novelty, sexual association developed over time, and accidental discovery through play. They discuss what it means to have a fantasy vs kink that is practised. Safety. Lex describes the experience of both submissives and dominants. They discuss how to bring up your humiliation kink with a partner. Does having a humiliation kink mean you have low self-esteem?   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre www.sexwithlex.com.au Instagram @sexwithlexmelbSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Emily explores how to spice up the missionary position. Missionary can get a bad rap, dismissed as boring or too vanilla, but it doesn't have to be. Emily shares 8 ways to bring more pleasure, connection and excitement into missionary, proving there's way more to this position than people give it credit for. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why do we keep choosing the wrong partners — even when we know better? In this episode of That’s Orgasmic, Emily sits down with psychotherapist and professor Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown to unpack the unconscious patterns that draw us toward emotionally unavailable relationships, familiar chaos, and unresolved wounds. Together, they explore the idea of an “erotic emotional map,” how childhood attachment patterns can shape adult love lives, and why butterflies, adrenaline, and uncertainty can sometimes be misread as attraction. Gillian shares practical tools for noticing what a relationship brings out in you, including a simple body-based exercise and a post-date reflection practice that helps you track whether someone expands your sense of self or slowly erodes it. If you’ve ever found yourself repeating the same relationship pattern, struggling to walk away, or wondering why calm love feels unfamiliar, this conversation offers compassionate insight and grounded guidance for choosing healthier, safer, and more reciprocal connection. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre Pre-order Dr. Gillian O'Shea Brown's book now (with a preorder bonus of a sample chapter and the Erotic Emotional Map) Take the Psychological Achilles Heel Quiz: https://gillianosheabrown.webflow.io/ Dr. Gillian's Instagram Dr. Gillian's TikTok  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.