That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof  Emily and Nicole discuss: How to have a scary conversation with someone  Boundaries How a lack of boundaries can impact anxiety relationship check-ins Flop and fracture response what to do if your partner is dissociating  What to do if your partner is overstimulated FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) LIFELINE: https://www.lifeline.org.au/ Dr Nicole Cain's links IG: drnicolecain FB: Dr. Nicole Cain Youtube: DrNicoleCainNMDA Website: https://drnicolecain.com/ Buy Panic Proof: https://www.amazon.com.au/Panic-Proof-Holistic-Solution-Anxiety-ebook/dp/B0D262P23GSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof  Emily and Nicole discuss: What is anxiety? Why do we experience anxiety? Difference between being diagnosed with anxiety and experiencing anxiety How does anxiety impact romantic relationships? Inner child work Communication between the brain and your body during an emotional response How to regulate during a fight with four steps The vagus nerve FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) LIFELINE: https://www.lifeline.org.au/ Dr Nicole Cain's links IG: drnicolecain FB: Dr. Nicole Cain Youtube: DrNicoleCainNMDA Website: https://drnicolecain.com/ Buy Panic Proof: https://www.amazon.com.au/Panic-Proof-Holistic-Solution-Anxiety-ebook/dp/B0D262P23GSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Emily is joined by Anna Rahe. Anna is the founder of GST Body and a somatic expert with over 25 years of professional experience.  Emily and Anna discuss: What is fascia/connective tissue system Why fascia is important and how it impacts our sex lives Sexual pain and fascia Why you may be experience a lack of pleasure during sex How to support the pelvic floor muscles Sexual trauma and pelvic pain Reflective systems in the body (throat to pelvic floor)   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   LIFELINE: https://www.lifeline.org.au/   Anna’s Links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gstbody/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annaraheofgst/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GSTBody Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCixVSo4ZACweqBpZZ_AZJ0A Website: https://gstbody.com/pages/our-storySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode explores different ways that bisexual women in monogamous relationships can connect to their sexuality while respecting and honouring their partnership. Featuring Mim Kempson a dating and relationship coach. Emily and Mim discuss: What is a dating and relationship coach? When should you see a relationship coach? Biphobia  Common bisexual myths How can a bisexual woman honour her sexuality with a cis-gendered heterosexual man when polyamory and opening the relationship isn't on the table If a man feels threatened by their partner's sexuality in this relationship, what can they do to break down that fear and instead support their partner? Mim's website: https://www.mimkempson.com/ FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   MAGIC MIND: You have a limited offer you can use now, that gets you up to 48% offyour first subscription or 20% off one time purchases with code ORGASMIC20 at checkout You can claim it at: https://magicmind.com/ORGASMIC20See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Emily explores losing your sense of self while in a relationship and how you can reclaim your individuality. Emily explores six signs that you may be losing your sense of self and then provides six strategies to overcome this phenomenon.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   MAGIC MIND: You have a limited offer you can use now, that gets you up to 48% offyour first subscription or 20% off one time purchases with code ORGASMIC20 at checkout You can claim it at: https://magicmind.com/ORGASMIC20See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett. Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution for men to reclaim intimate connections and rediscover a part of themselves they may have thought was lost forever. Emily and Melissa discuss: Prostate cancer How cancer can affect sexual function Penis rehabilitation project Treating erectile difficulties after cancer Prevalence of erectile difficulties after prostate cancer What penis owners can do during prostate cancer treatment to support their penis and sexual function FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Melissa's links The Penis Project Podcast: Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Audible and at https://melissahadleybarrett.com/podcast/ Websites: https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders Use the code MHB10 at the checkout on all the programs (penile rehab, erectile dysfunction and Peyronies) for a 10% discount. Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/https://www.facebook.com/Restorativeshealthclinic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/https://www.instagram.com/rshealth_perth/ TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/ TEDX: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjHj1YTmLoA MAGIC MIND: You have a limited offer you can use now, that gets you up to 48% offyour first subscription or 20% off one time purchases with code ORGASMIC20 at checkout You can claim it at: https://magicmind.com/ORGASMIC20See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett. Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution for men to reclaim intimate connections and rediscover a part of themselves they may have thought was lost forever. Emily and Melissa discuss: The most common concerns in Melissa’s clinic Peyronies disease Erectile dysfunction How to treat erectile dysfunction Tips for if you lose your erection during sex Tips for a healthier penis FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Melissa's links The Penis Project Podcast: Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Audible and at https://melissahadleybarrett.com/podcast/ Websites: https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders Use the code MHB10 at the checkout on all the programs (penile rehab, erectile dysfunction and Peyronies) for a 10% discount. Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/https://www.facebook.com/Restorativeshealthclinic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/https://www.instagram.com/rshealth_perth/ TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/ TEDX: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjHj1YTmLoASee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions.    Where does the line get drawn between respecting someone’s personal boundaries and expanding their sexual horizons? Do women like dick pics? Connection games for lovers What do I do if sex starts to feel dull? Why does it hurt when I have sex? Is it normal to have never orgasmed? How to bring up non-monogamy with a partner   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions.  My vibrator recommendations I want to try anal, but it always hurts, what can I do? How much sex do people have? Can you desensitise your nerves (clitoris) from using vibrators? Is porn bad?   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode features Dr. Cathleen Brown who is a board-certified OB/GYN from Philadelphia.  Emily and Dr. Cat discuss: What is menopause? What is Perimenopause? Menopause myths Vaginal atrophy  Sex and menopause How to support yourself to have a healthier menopause  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Dr. Cat's Instagram @drcatobgyn Winona website: https://bywinona.com/authors/dr-brownSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Emily discusses Cuckolding.  Topics include: What is cuckolding? Why do people engage in cuckolding? How to practice cuckolding How to talk to your partner about cuckolding Things to think about in terms of cuckolding FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Emily discusses NDIS minister Bill Shorten’s proposed changes in the NDIS to remove sex work. Emily discusses why this should not happen, the impact this would have on disabled people and why sex work should be a service that disabled people can access. This episode was posted early due to this being a current issue. Sign the petition: https://www.progressivetherapeutic.com.au/sex-work-counselling FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Emily discusses what to first do if you want to increase your desire for sex.   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Trigger warning this episode discusses sexual assault.  In this episode, Emily discusses having sex in your sleep AKA sexsomnia, Emily breaks down what sexsomnia is and what it can look like. She shares stories of people who have experienced sexsomnia, what can cause sexsomnia and how to support someone who lives with sexsomnia.    FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) References:  Guilleminault, C., Moscovitch, A., Yuen, K., & Poyares, D. (2002). Atypical sexual behaviour during sleep. Psychosomatic Medicine, 64, 328-336 Mangan, M., A. (2004). A Phenomenology of Problematic Sexual Behaviour Occurring in Sleep. Archives of Sexual Behaviour, 33, 287-293.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode features partners Stace and Ty. Stace is an intimacy coach and Ty a health coach. They both want to take the taboo and intimidation out of sex. They want people to embrace sexploration and kinksploration to fulfill their sexual potential. They have a kink for being watched and Only Fans is their means to fulfill this on demand.   Emily, Stace and Ty discuss: What is Under the Sheets How Under the Sheets support couples and individuals sex lives Exhibitionism and how Stace and Ty decided to explore it Tips for exploring exhibitionism  Increasing intimacy and confidence in the bedroom What Stace and Ty are exploring in their own sex life Blowjob tip Thrusting tip for better sex FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Check out Under The Sheet with the following link: https://underthesheets.mn.co/share/Mn4CJqu6ApdY9Jfj?utm_source=manual Stace and Ty's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spicewithstaceandty/ Stace and Ty's other links (OF, TIKTOK, FANSLY, X): https://www.linkswithstaceandty.com/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode features Irene Fehr, a Sex & Intimacy Coach who weaves together somatic sex coaching, mindfulness, and emotional communication work, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection Sex approach with monogamous long-term couples struggling with a sexless marriage who come to her often as a last resort before divorce to turn things around towards deeper sexual intimacy and passion. She also works with single women on embodying their sexuality and working through the dating process to create a future relationship they desire.   Emily and Irene discuss: Irene's experience with a sexless relationship What leads to a sexless relationship How to reestablish connection in a sexless relationship Highly sensitive people and what that looks like Sex for a highly sensitive person Pre-sex needs for highly sensitive women How to cultivate sexual desire How a partner of a highly sensitive person can support them   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Irene's website: www.irenefehr.com Irene's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ignitedwoman/    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode feature Niamh Mannion who is a Developmental Educator and Sexologist who loves all things disability and sexuality.  Emily and Niamh discuss: What is a developmental educator? What is neurodivergence? What are sensory needs? What is a sexuality sensory diet? What is a Sexuality Dopamenu? Emily and Niamh create a Sexuality Dopamenu Neurodivergent love langauges FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Niamh's website: https://www.myfriendinsexed.com/about Niamh's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myfriendinsexed/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this solo episode, Emily discusses why you don't need a bigger penis. Emily also shares tips for exploring pleasure and tips for overcoming body image concerns. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode featured Dana Da Silva who is a single mum of two based in Sydney, Australia. She's a part-time media adviser and an indie author with big dreams. She considers putting pen to paper to be an exquisite art, free therapy, and a form of meditation. The Shift is her debut book. Emily and Dana discuss: Dana’s experience with OCD Paedophilic OCD How to support somebody with OCD BDSM Is BDSM spiritually good for you? Our experiences with orgasm becoming easier to obtain Dana’s experience with UTIs FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Dana’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/writerdanadasilva/ Buy Dan’a’s book The Shift’: https://www.amazon.com.au/Shift-memoir-Dana-Silva/dp/0648630005See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode features Dr. Sarah Ashton who is a registered psychologist (AHPRA), Board Approved Supervisor (AHPRA), training author, and the Director and Founder of SHIPS. Sarah created SHIPS because she saw a deep need for safe and inclusive spaces to talk about sex and connection. She sees liberating expression of sexuality from fear, isolation, and shame as her personal and professional purpose. In this episode Emily and Dr. Sarah Ashton discuss: What is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? The prevalence of BPD Common BPD misconceptions How BPD can impact romantic relationships How people with BPD can maintain healthy relationships How BPD can impact sex How a partner of somebody with BPD can support them FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) SHIPS Psychology Website: https://www.shipspsychology.com.au/ SHIPS Psychology Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shipspsychology/ SHIPS Training Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shipstraining/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.