This concept comes from the idea that it is very scary to admit failure. People deny that they were powerless in their endeavor while claiming that they lacked talent. They make excuses subconsciously and tell themselves there is no end to the game called life. And it is not just the beginning, there is still more to come. That the never give up model is the correct answer. What this does, it takes away from the opportunity for one to properly feel the despair failin...
In a period that is filled with competition and comparison, where people are of the perception that they are spoiled for choice they view or approach dating like walking into a store and individuals like products that you have to search for defects. Unfortunately the dating/ human world does not conform to this rule as there is no such thing as a perfect person but social media begs to differ and promotes peoples chase for options.
In this case it is anything undesired or that interferes with ones focus, and this noise can come from all sorts of sources be it friends, family, environment you name it. Our goal in life is to keep our eyes on the prize as we navigate the sea of life in the persuit of fulfilment, purpose and success. My question to you is, do you have the strength of character to blockout the noise?
Ever wondered why people say " they dont appreciate me any more" or why businesses are so heavily invested in creatives? Familiarity isthe root cause of all this and in all types of relationships thereis one unwritten rule, dont let it seep in too deep otherwise it breeds contempt.
Much like every other movement, the body positivity movement started off on the correct framework before being overrun by extremists who push for a selfish agenda, trying to make excuses for bad decisions and giving people a way out from being accountable and not taking any action. As we unpack this a fewareas will be exposed.
At different ages, our body requires different considerations when we talk about fitness. Fitness transcends to even your latest stages of life, It is more than and activity. It goes way beyond than just being part of your lifestyle, It is literally your key to life and longevity. Our body thrives when we keep on moving in different ways andperiodsofour lives and when we feed it right.
The generation we have is afraid of hard work. They hide behind the statements of working smarter, having work life balance, self. All these terms that are being thrown around simply to run away from the responsibility of backing up your words with your actions. A lot of relationships and dreams die because people say one thing and their actions do not match the same energy, and that's it becomes betrayal.
Our habits and rituals have a massive impact on how far we go when it comes to attaining your dreams. My Question to you is (are you were you want to be? ) If your answer is no and you see yourself lagging behind or far from the dream it means your habits and rituals that you currently have are due for a change, mind you this is no easy task but it has to be done.
When you have a vision, its ok to play the fool in peoples eyes while you work towards making it a reality. Once your vision is beyond certain people's comprehension and they can't categorize it, they will definately criticize you and make you look like a fool. Noah's ark story is a prime example of how looking the fool saved him and his family.
This is one episode that is enspiredby a trip i made to afood court and ordered a milkshake. We get what we pour into our lives and in whatever aspect of life, be it spiritual, financial, physical, you name it, there is a need to have awareness in terms of what you want to achieve. One way to put it is that you want to have a goal and it is this goal that is your version of a milkshake.
We get so caught up in the allure that partly controllable goals bring, we dont pay attention to the dangers that come along with this illusion. You can be so focused that at the end of it all you dont take account everything that surrounds you, you become so blinkered that you miss the beautiful scenary around you when your race is to beat the light.
Living life through the stragtegy of feelings can be a very tricky path to walk on, as it makes you very re-active. Emotions can distract you from the purpose, and more often than note your feelings change . However living through principal ensures that your emotions do not get in the way of your vision or goal, principles dont care about your emotions which is why they are the best tool for success.
As unique as our fingerprint is, each of us has their own path to which they must walk. To be able to get to the end one must endure and understand the challenges that come in whichever shape or form, however we find that in recent times society as been hugely shaped by comparison. People compare their process to other peoples outcomes, they see the light but forget that the light shines and exposes the work that was done in the dark. the goal is not what will sustain you at the ...
As we look to wrap up the second part of this dilema, its clear that our mindset towards our work or whatever it is we are procrastinating towards plays a big role. No solution can be given without also changing our position and view, once you have a change of mindset you find it is easy to shift gears and get things done. Now the question is how do we get to this stage?
One of the most misunderstood aspect and associated with being lazy. But there is more than meets the eye with this particular area, and to be able to solve such a delima we have to first understand it and identify the various forms and shapes it comes in.
More often than not you hear wellness professionals and advocates of growth talk about stepping out of your comfort zone. This episode (part 2 of Comfort Zones) talks about how to prepare for that move to ensure that you manage to step out. No one just wakes up one day and says i'm making that move, there are things that you need to do that will aid you in that preparation. Much like a storm you dont want it to come and your arc is half built because you will drown.
Setting goals and targets is not something new to people, however the motives or reasoning behing whatever gol or target you have can make all the difference. It can be the determining factor of wheter you win or fail and that motive is your Anchor. An Anchor will be the reason why you do what you do, and this has to be bigger than just you getting a cheque, the bigger your anchor the bigger the reason to fight all forms of adversity to see it through.
A Comfort Zone is a place that we think is our safe haven but lead us down the path to our own demise, the so called 'safe haven' that has an expiration date and if you not careful you sink faster than you can get out. People will argue and say but the whole idea is to be comfortable with what you are doing and thats ok, but truth be told there is no growth that happens in the comfort zonea you will only yield the bare minimum. In this episode we will get into that and more about one this zon...
An understanding of the importance of healthy eating and its role in ones journey for a better and heathier version of themselves is one that is always needed. There is so much information that has flooded the internet and has led to mis-information and confusion as to what is the best way to navigate the world of food and has led people to jump on these fad diets. so we talk Healthy eating vs Dieting.
There are a lot of rules of engagement between trainers and clients, some of which are unwritten and just basic knowledge of conduct. Everyone is expected to work on the side of the fence so that the outcome is really good, everything goes wrong when oundaries get crossed or tested from either party. In this episode we just go through some of the major aspects that really end up affecting the interaction.