You Are Not A Frog

The podcast for GPs, hospital doctors and other professionals in high-stakes, high-stress jobs who want to thrive rather than just survive. You studied for years, you’re really good at what you do but you’ve noticed that you’re starting to feel overwhelmed, overworked and under-resourced. You may be comparing yourself to a frog in boiling water - the heat has built up so slowly that you haven’t noticed the extra-long days becoming the norm. You may feel on the edge and trapped in the very job that you’ve spent years working towards. Here’s the problem, frogs only have two choices; stay and be boiled alive, or jump out of the pan. The good news is that you are not a frog. You have many more choices than you think you do. You don’t have to quit, and nor should stress and burnout be inevitable. It is possible to be master of your own destiny, to craft your work life and career so that you can thrive even in the most difficult of situations. There are simple changes you can make which will make a huge difference to your stress levels and help you enjoy life again. Your host is Dr Rachel Morris, GP turned Executive Coach and Specialist in Resilience at Work who knows what it’s like to feel like an exhausted frog. In the podcast, she’ll be talking to friends, colleagues and experts all who have an interesting take on resilience for clever people in high-stakes, high-stress jobs so that together you can take back control to beat stress and burnout, survive and thrive.

How to avoid guilt on repeat

We often feel guilty for things out of our control. But why should we feel guilty about things we aren’t responsible for?Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtraJoin the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group

11-20
52:48

How to Think Past “Right and Wrong” and Find Choices That Work for You

When we see choices or behaviours as simply “right” or “wrong”, we end up making decisions based on fear and judgement. But there’s an easier approach, and it’s 800 years old.Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

11-19
18:16

How Stories Can Help You Beat Burnout

How novels, poetry, or a gripping film can help us lighten the emotional load, discuss difficult feelings, and allow us to become more resilient.Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupBedside Reading – Tara’s podcastFind more links and resources via our websiteMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.How to Recharge When You Can’t Retreat 3 DIY retreat plans for really busy people

11-12
46:31

You Can’t Organise Your Way Out of Overwhelm

The advice for dealing with overwhelm is so often to do more, but what we really need is to rest. This quick dip provides a framework to help you reconnect with what you need, so you can make time for it instead of trying to tackle it with todo lists.Download our Overwhelm SOS Toolkit – Free downloadHow to retreat when you can’t go on retreat – Free downloadDownload the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

11-05
21:45

How to Make the Right Choice When You Aren’t Certain

Decision fatigue and fear of uncertainty can lead us to feeling stuck, unable to move forwards. In this episode, Dr Claire Plumbly returns with practical guidance on making decisions from a place of stability.Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupBurnout: How to Manage Your Nervous System Before it Manages You – Dr Claire’s bookMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.Work Well Programme for Healthcare TeamsHelp all the staff in your organisation thrive under pressure with a programme of wellbeing resources, team activities, monthly webinars, and additional support.

10-29
48:23

The Magic Question to Unlock Your Deep Intuition

When’s the last time you stopped and asked yourself what you truly want, or whether what you’re doing right now is right for you?In this quick dip, Rachel offers a series of questions you can ask yourself to help you find those “hell yeah!” opportunities, and avoid the “hell no!” obligations.Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

10-22
17:34

How to Promote Good Mental Health for You and Your Kids

Challenges and failures help teach problem-solving and emotional regulation. So how can we as parents promote independence while still being a source of safety for our kids?Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupGet more links and show notes via our websiteMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.Work Well Programme for Healthcare TeamsHelp all the staff in your organisation thrive under pressure with a programme of wellbeing resources, team activities, monthly webinars, and additional support.

10-15
55:01

Does the Usual Productivity Advice Work for People Seeing Patients?

When everything feels urgent – or when other colleagues’ “urgent” stuff lands on your desk – it can feel impossible to get your other important work done. So how can you manage your time so that you can do the stuff that really matters? The stuff that isn’t just urgent, but is important to you and your practice?Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

10-08
19:42

What’s So Important About Purpose?

Are you doing what you’re really meant for? If you’re not sure, how can you find out? And if you’re not where you think you should be, how can you find work that better fits your purpose?Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupSolving for Why: A Surgeon's Journey to Discover the Transformative Power of Purpose – Mark’s bookMentioned in this episode:Work Well Programme for Healthcare TeamsHelp all the staff in your organisation thrive under pressure with a programme of wellbeing resources, team activities, monthly webinars, and additional support.Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

10-01
41:11

How to Get What You Need When Even YOU Don’t Know

When’s the last time you complained at someone for something they “should” have done, only to feel bad about it later? We all do it, and it’s usually because a core need isn’t being met. This quick dip will help you identify those needs so you can take steps to meet them.Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupDownload our free Overwhelm SMS ToolkitMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

09-24
24:07

Crafting a Career That Works

Are you feeling challenged and stretched in a healthy way at work? Are your unique skills being used to their fullest? If not, what might be holding you back from taking a leap into a career that can offer greater fulfilment and happiness?Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupGet more links and show notes from our websiteMentioned in this episode:Work Well Programme for Healthcare TeamsHelp all the staff in your organisation thrive under pressure with a programme of wellbeing resources, team activities, monthly webinars, and additional support.Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

09-17
43:25

What to Do With That Nagging Feeling That Something’s Not Right

You can ignore the stone in your shoe for a few steps, but after a while it becomes unbearable and potentially harmful. The same is true of those nagging thoughts and doubts we have about work.Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

09-10
20:36

Finding Your Opposite World to Beat Burnout

Are the things you do to blow off steam really helping you, or are you bringing aspects of your work life into your hobbies?This is a remix of episode 188, edited to highlight the most impactful points and key takeaways.Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

09-03
14:55

How to Stop Your Inner Critic Hijacking Your Day

What can you do to quiet the inner critic voice that tells you you’re not good enough, or there’s more you could have done?Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupGet more links and show notes from our websiteMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.Work Well Programme for Healthcare TeamsHelp all the staff in your organisation thrive under pressure with a programme of wellbeing resources, team activities, monthly webinars, and additional support.

08-27
28:45

The Exact Script to Use When a Colleague’s Being Rude

How can we create a safer environment where upsetting behaviour can be challenged? Co-founder of the Civility Saves Lives explains.This is a replay of episode 192, edited to highlight the most impactful points and key takeaways.Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupView more links and show notes via our websiteMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

08-20
23:27

"Having it All" as a Woman in Medicine

Balancing personal life with a busy medical career is especially tough for women. But there is a way to craft a fulfilling career and have a family.This episode is in partnership with the Physician Mums UK Facebook Group.Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupView more links and show notesMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.Work Well Programme for Healthcare TeamsHelp all the staff in your organisation thrive under pressure with a programme of wellbeing resources, team activities, monthly webinars, and additional support.

08-13
44:09

How to Keep Going in a Struggling System

How can we thrive in a healthcare system that’s overstretched and under-resourced? What is within our control to change? Is it the system, or how we operate in it? And what can we do differently, given all the usual advice around “resilience”?Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupGet more resources on our websiteMentioned in this episode:Work Well Programme for Healthcare TeamsHelp all the staff in your organisation thrive under pressure with a programme of wellbeing resources, team activities, monthly webinars, and additional support.Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

08-06
49:54

What I Learned From My Facebook Haters

Rachel digs through her Facebook comments to address some of the challenging feedback she’s received across 230 episodes.Burnout: 9 mistakes healthcare professionals make and what to do insteadDownload the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupMentioned in this episode:Work Well Programme for Healthcare TeamsHelp all the staff in your organisation thrive under pressure with a programme of wellbeing resources, team activities, monthly webinars, and additional support.Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

07-30
53:05

Why We Need MORE Conflict in Our Teams

Is everything OK within your team? Would anyone speak up if it wasn’t? If your team is quietly getting on while important stuff is getting missed, it might be because there isn’t enough healthy conflict.This quick dip will help you create a safe space for conflict so that issues can be raised without it getting personal.Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupVisit our website for more links and show notesMentioned in this episode:Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

07-23
17:53

Is My Attachment Style Causing My Burnout?

The ways we deal with difficult situations at work and tricky relationships in general is massively influenced by our childhood. Discover what role attachment styles play in how we handle stress, and learn what practical steps you can take to avoid burnout.Burnout: How to Manage Your Nervous System Before it Manages You – Claire’s bookDownload the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupVisit our website for more links and show notesMentioned in this episode:Work Well Programme for Healthcare TeamsHelp all the staff in your organisation thrive under pressure with a programme of wellbeing resources, team activities, monthly webinars, and additional support.Join FrogXtraThe monthly membership for doctors and busy professionals in high stress jobs, who want to beat burnout and work happier.

07-16
53:39

Kevin Richardson

just found your podcast. fantastic thann you

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Annie Forester

Gosh, this is so helpful. really spot on advice on dealing with complaints. I wish I'd heard this before...

06-02 Reply

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