012. Reducing Feelings of Guilt: Decoding This Pattern Through CPTSD
Description
What is it called when you constantly feel guilty?
Chronic guilt is one of the most common and misunderstood symptoms of CPTSD. It appears whenever your Protective Parts confuse wise decision making with danger, disapproval, or emotional abandonment. The guilt is not evidence that you did something wrong. It is evidence that your system is bracing for consequences that are no longer real.
CPTSD makes clarity elusive because the inner alarms fire too quickly. In this episode, you will learn how to reclaim your inner compass so you can make choices with confidence instead of fear. When you understand where the guilt comes from, it loses its power to run your life.
- How do I stop feeling guilty all the time?
- Why do I feel like I am always about to get into trouble?
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About Dr. Tanner Wallace
Dr. Tanner Wallace is a childhood trauma survivor, former university professor, and Level 3 Internal Family Systems Practitioner who specializes in CPTSD Resolution. She founded CPTSD Medicine to offer applied mental health training for high-achieving adults who want a clear, structured path to heal trauma at the root and stop repeating painful relationship patterns.
About the Heal First Then Pick Your Life Partner Podcast
Heal First Then Pick Your Life Partner is a podcast for look-good-on-paper adults with unresolved CPTSD, anxious attachment, or repeated relationship pain. If you look confident on the outside but feel overwhelmed, confused, or ashamed by the patterns you cannot break, this podcast teaches you why.
Each episode breaks down how trauma shapes your emotions, triggers, and relationship choices, and offers practical, research-informed steps to heal at the root. Learn how to stop trauma-driven reactions, understand emotional flashbacks, build secure attachment, create healthier relationships, and finally feel safe inside your own system.
Hosted by Dr. Tanner Wallace, PhD and Level 3 Internal Family Systems practitioner, this podcast provides applied mental health training for adults who want clarity, stability, and a structured path to CPTSD Resolution.
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