How do you calm down during a trauma response?

When you have unresolved CPTSD, grounding is not as simple as "just breathe" or "focus on the present moment." Your body is responding to danger that once was real, and the level of fear that surges through you cannot be soothed by techniques that ignore the deeper patterns inside your system.

Grounding methods can either help you move through a trauma response or push you back into survival mode. The difference is understanding what your nervous system is protecting you from. In this episode, you will learn a grounding technique designed to make you stronger, not better at white-knuckling your way through fear.

• How do I release fear from trauma?
• How do I release trauma trapped in the body?

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About Dr. Tanner Wallace

Dr. Tanner Wallace is a childhood trauma survivor, former university professor, and Level 3 Internal Family Systems Practitioner who specializes in CPTSD Resolution. She founded CPTSD Medicine to offer applied mental health training for high-achieving adults who want a clear, structured path to heal trauma at the root and stop repeating painful relationship patterns.

About the Heal First Then Pick Your Life Partner Podcast

Heal First Then Pick Your Life Partner is a podcast for look-good-on-paper adults with unresolved CPTSD, anxious attachment, or repeated relationship pain. If you look confident on the outside but feel overwhelmed, confused, or ashamed by the patterns you cannot break, this podcast teaches you why.

Each episode breaks down how trauma shapes your emotions, triggers, and relationship choices, and offers practical, research-informed steps to heal at the root. Learn how to stop trauma-driven reactions, understand emotional flashbacks, build secure attachment, create healthier relationships, and finally feel safe inside your own system.

Hosted by Dr. Tanner Wallace, PhD and Level 3 Internal Family Systems practitioner, this podcast provides applied mental health training for adults who want clarity, stability, and a structured path to CPTSD Resolution.

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