103: 7 things iโd NEVER do again if i DATED now as a secure woman ๐ท๐ (what to do instead)
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โฆand the last one will shock you
7 Things Iโd Do Differently If I Dated Now As a Secure Woman
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How to STOP needing so much reassurance via text โค๏ธโ๐ฉน๐ฑ
https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/textanxiety
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If youโve ever met one guy on a dating app and your brain immediately built a whole 10-year love story in 48 hoursโฆ this episode is your new medicine.
Iโm breaking down the 7 things I would do completely differently if I dated again - now that Iโm securely attached and no longer chasing crumbs ๐เพเฝฒเพเฝฒ
Inside this episode, youโll learn:
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Why dating multiple people at once keeps you in CHOICE instead of obsession
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How dating slow protects you from falling for โpotentialโ
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The reason secure women show up authentic fast, instead of performing
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Why I wait for emotional safety before ANY intimacy
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How to actually date head over heart (and stop confusing chaos for chemistry)
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What detached energy looks like when youโre not in scarcity anymore
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Why keeping your life the main event makes you more attractive instantly
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And the extra rule that would SHOCK old me:
I donโt initiate or follow up after early dates - ever
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If you want to attract a secure, emotionally available partnerโฆ
If youโre tired of overthinking texts, panicking after dates, or getting attached to someone you barely knowโฆ
If you want to date from your POWER and not your fearโฆ
This episode is your roadmapย
Iโm sharing real stories, client examples, and the exact shifts that turn anxious dating into secure dating.
This isnโt fluffy advice.
These are the rules that create healthy, grounded, actual connection โ not fantasy bonds.
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๐ทโจ Listen now if you want to stop chasing chemistry and start choosing compatibility.
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1:1 Coaching Offersย (via video calls or whatsapp)
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Free Find yourย ANXIOUS Archetype NOWย (to feel calmer)
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Free:ย Anxious to Secure Checklist
https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/anxioustosecurechecklist
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FREE 3min Attachment Style QUIZย
https://themarriagecoach.outgrow.us/attachmentstyle3mquiz
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๐ค ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ How to STOP needing so much reassurance via text
(because safety comes from within, and you chasing or not settling boundary is the thing that give you anxiety, NOT a delayed text.)
https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/textanxiety
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โถ๏ธ Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Secure Dating Tips
00:34 7 Secure dating Tips (from an EX Anxious Attachment Girly)
00:44 Dating tip #01
03:57 Dating Tip #02
06:44 Dating Tip #03
08:40 Dating Tip #04
09:55 Dating Tip #05
11:41 Dating Tips #06
13:41 Dating Tip #07
17:23 Bonus Dating Tip #08
22:06 Remember THIS
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DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor.
This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions.
This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.
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Remember: Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.
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