DiscoverThe Anxious To Secure PODCAST91: Do avoidants come back after space + breakup?๐Ÿฅบ How to AVOID another Push-Pull Cycle
91: Do avoidants come back after space + breakup?๐Ÿฅบ How to AVOID another Push-Pull Cycle

91: Do avoidants come back after space + breakup?๐Ÿฅบ How to AVOID another Push-Pull Cycle

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Attachment Style QUIZ 3 min FREE


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Breakups with avoidant partners can leave you feeling confused, anxious, and stuck wondering: Will my avoidant ex ever come back? ๐Ÿ–ค


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In this episode, I dive deep into what avoidant partners do after a breakup, including the 3 stages avoidants go through when they pull away, how they process space, and why they sometimes reach out again.


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Youโ€™ll learn:


โ˜… How avoidant exes think and feel after a breakup


โ˜… Signs your avoidant ex might be missing you


โ˜… What happens when avoidants need space


โ˜… How to stop the push-pull cycle with an avoidant partner


โ˜… How to protect yourself emotionally while an avoidant processes their feelings


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If youโ€™ve ever Googled โ€œwhy does my avoidant ex pull away but still care?โ€ or โ€œdo avoidant partners come back after a breakup,โ€ this episode is for you. Understanding these stages helps you set boundaries, stay grounded, and take control of your healingโ€”no guessing required. โœจ


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CHAPTERS:


00:00 Understanding Avoidant Attachment After Breakup


02:21 Stage 01: Emotional Shutdown


07:30 Stage 02: Quiet Reassessment


11:32 Stage 03: โ€œI Actually Need This Personโ€ โœจ


16:15 What you should consider IF you get back together with the avoidant


17:52 Final Thoughts on Healing and Relationships


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DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions.


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This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.


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Remember: Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.

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91: Do avoidants come back after space + breakup?๐Ÿฅบ How to AVOID another Push-Pull Cycle

91: Do avoidants come back after space + breakup?๐Ÿฅบ How to AVOID another Push-Pull Cycle

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