91: Do avoidants come back after space + breakup?๐ฅบ How to AVOID another Push-Pull Cycle
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Breakups with avoidant partners can leave you feeling confused, anxious, and stuck wondering: Will my avoidant ex ever come back? ๐ค
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In this episode, I dive deep into what avoidant partners do after a breakup, including the 3 stages avoidants go through when they pull away, how they process space, and why they sometimes reach out again.
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Youโll learn:
โ How avoidant exes think and feel after a breakup
โ Signs your avoidant ex might be missing you
โ What happens when avoidants need space
โ How to stop the push-pull cycle with an avoidant partner
โ How to protect yourself emotionally while an avoidant processes their feelings
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If youโve ever Googled โwhy does my avoidant ex pull away but still care?โ or โdo avoidant partners come back after a breakup,โ this episode is for you. Understanding these stages helps you set boundaries, stay grounded, and take control of your healingโno guessing required. โจ
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 Understanding Avoidant Attachment After Breakup
02:21 Stage 01: Emotional Shutdown
07:30 Stage 02: Quiet Reassessment
11:32 Stage 03: โI Actually Need This Personโ โจ
16:15 What you should consider IF you get back together with the avoidant
17:52 Final Thoughts on Healing and Relationships
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DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions.
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This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.
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Remember: Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.



