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#117: Have You Reached Your Pain Threshold in the Wake of Your Spouse’s Sexual Betrayal?

#117: Have You Reached Your Pain Threshold in the Wake of Your Spouse’s Sexual Betrayal?

Update: 2022-09-07

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Why do some betrayed spouse’s make deliberate choices to set boundaries in their broken marriage and move toward healing while others live in a prolonged state of dysfunction, desperately trying to fix their spouse and/or their marriage?

In this episode of the Hope for Spouses’ Lunchtime Live, Kim Pullen talks about how hitting our “pain threshold” makes all the difference in recovery. Kim will define what a pain threshold is, factors that affect it, why we change or resist, and who we can make choices to bring about peace and active healing regardless of the choices our unfaithful spouse makes.

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SCRIPTURE REFERENCES:

Hebrews 2:10 , 18
Hebrews 12:7-11
Romans 5:3-4
James 5:16
Matthew 23:27-28
Hebrews 11:6
Psalm 1:1-2

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#117: Have You Reached Your Pain Threshold in the Wake of Your Spouse’s Sexual Betrayal?

#117: Have You Reached Your Pain Threshold in the Wake of Your Spouse’s Sexual Betrayal?