#124: This is an IshYOU, Not an IshME (aka: When an issue has nothing to do with you)
Update: 2024-10-10
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Ok. So there's a problem.
Maybe someone's saying it's your fault. Or they're implying it. Or you're just assuming it.
What do you do? Well, if you're like a lot of folks, you go into Auto-Wrong Mode.
- You question your right to have an opinion contrary to others...to implement a boundary...to say no to a request
- You assume you're wrong, you've created the problem, and now it's your job to fix it
- You lose sight of what you TRULY think, feel, want and need
NOT ANYMORE, friend.
I used to ask clients to consider another perspective ("What if this problem has 100% to do with them, and 0% to do with you?") but now - thanks to a brave, wise, empowered young woman - I have this gem of a question:
What if this is an ish-YOU, not an ish-ME?
Listen for how to free yourself from assuming you're in the wrong, and from taking responsibility for being "different" just so there isn't a problem anymore!
LINKS!
- What's your DECISION STYLE? Take the Quiz!
- Need to say NO? Here's your 11-minute Crash Course on Saying NO Guilt-Free.
- Ready to talk about getting clear, intentional & sure of your choices? Book your free consultation for a no-strings conversation about your goals and if this coaching is right for you!
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