172. Is Money Your Friend or Your Worst Enemy? - Martine Severin
Description
What's your relationship with money? Is it your friend, your enemy, or something much more complicated? In this episode, I discuss a topic we all think about but rarely talk about: money.
We'll explore the science of how money stress affects our creative brains and unpack the family stories that shape our financial habits. We'll guide you through actionable steps and a few mindset shifts, including the powerful "Honey Money" concept, that have helped me build a healthier, more abundant relationship with my finances.
This episode is for any creative who's ready to rewrite their money story and build a life that feels not just creatively fulfilling, but financially safe and expansive.
Chapters
00:00 - My Money Story: From Haiti to a Scarcity Mindset
03:05 - The Science of Money Stress: How Scarcity Affects Your Brain
05:15 - Unpacking Your Family's Money History
07:00 - The Five-Step Journey to a New Mindset
11:10 - Books That Will Change Your Relationship with Money
15:30 - Meet 'Honey Money': A Simple Practice for Abundance
18:18 - A Gentle Warning and Where to Find Help
Here is the list of books and resources to help you reframe your relationship with money:
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Lower Ed by Tressie McMillan Cottom https://www.amazon.com/Lower-Ed-For-Profit-Education-Ruin-of-the-American-Dream/dp/1620974497
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The Color of Money by Mehrsa Baradaran ttps://www.amazon.com/Color-Money-Banking-Racial-Wealth/dp/0674237477
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Poverty, by America by Matthew Desmond https://www.amazon.com/Poverty-America-Matthew-Desmond/dp/0593239912
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Get Rich, Lucky Bitch! by Denise Duffield-Thomas https://www.amazon.com/Get-Rich-Lucky-Bitch-Manifesting/dp/1788172101
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The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel https://www.amazon.com/Psychology-Money-Timeless-lessons-happiness/dp/0857197681
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Overcoming Underearning by Barbara Stanny https://www.amazon.com/Overcoming-Underearning-Five-Steps-Richer/dp/0062842455
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The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk, M.D. https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748
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Happy Money by Ken Honda https://www.amazon.com/Happy-Money-Japanese-Making-Peace/dp/1501188372
Mental Health & Crisis Resources
Please remember, your well-being matters more than any amount of money. If you are struggling, please reach out to these resources for support.
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Crisis Text Line: For immediate support, text HOME to 741741.
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988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: You can call or text 988 to connect with the prevention line.
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Psychology Today: A resource to help you find a therapist in your area.
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This is How We Create is produced by Martine Severin. This episode was edited by Daniel Espinosa.
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