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192: What to Ask Before, During, and After the Fight

192: What to Ask Before, During, and After the Fight

Update: 2025-11-06
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Last Tuesday, my daughter came home frustrated and every instinct told me to fix it, control it, be right about it—but I paused and asked her what she thought her options were instead. This week, I'm sharing the specific questions that rewire how conflict happens: what to ask yourself before walking into hard conversations, how to stay present during them, and the reflection work that creates lasting change. Plus, I'm tackling the truth that 80% of conflict has no resolution—and why that's actually okay.

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192: What to Ask Before, During, and After the Fight

192: What to Ask Before, During, and After the Fight

Nicole Bachle