DiscoverSay The Things193: How to Come Back After You've Burned It Down
193: How to Come Back After You've Burned It Down

193: How to Come Back After You've Burned It Down

Update: 2025-11-13
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Repair is the most skipped step in conflict work, and I've had to do a lot of it with my daughter after years of being too quick, too certain, and too afraid to be vulnerable. Today, I'm breaking down the four components of genuine repair—and why "I'm sorry, but..." will never rebuild what you've broken. This isn't a one-and-done process, and your timeline isn't their timeline—but every time you choose repair over justification, you're teaching the people you love that you're safe.

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193: How to Come Back After You've Burned It Down

193: How to Come Back After You've Burned It Down

Nicole Bachle