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#275: The 7 Levels of Availability for ALL Relationships

#275: The 7 Levels of Availability for ALL Relationships

Update: 2025-01-14
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In this episode of the Black Girls Heal podcast, we're diving into a game-changing tool that's about to transform how you evaluate potential relationships - the Availability Scale. Drawing from my new book 'How to Pick Partners for Love Addicts,' we're breaking down the seven levels of availability that determine whether someone is truly ready and able to show up in a relationship.


We're getting practical about how to identify where potential partners fall on the scale, from those who are fully available for deep, meaningful connections (what I call BLP - Best Friend, Lover, Partner availability) to those who present critical dangers to your emotional wellbeing.


In this episode, we cover…

  • 04:26 The Seven Levels of Availability
  • 08:45 Signs of Availability and Unavailability
  • 13:13 Best Friend, Lover, Partner Availability
  • 29:39 Good Friend Level Availability
  • 34:51 Stranger Danger and Other Dangerous Levels


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#275: The 7 Levels of Availability for ALL Relationships

#275: The 7 Levels of Availability for ALL Relationships

Shena Lashey