When the house fills with shouting, accusations, and cries of “It’s mine!”, it can feel like you’re trapped in the middle of your children’s chaos. In this episode of Your Calm Parenting Path, Nina explores how to respond mindfully when sibling fights erupt - without taking sides, losing your cool, or spending every afternoon playing referee. You’ll discover simple, effective ways to guide your kids toward cooperation, empathy, and connection instead of competition and resentment.

You’ll Learn

• Why sibling fights happen, even in loving homes
• How to pause, breathe, and respond instead of react
• Five common traps parents fall into - and what to try instead
• A three-step mindful process for when conflict turns physical
• How to nurture individuality and teamwork between siblings

Why This Episode Matters

Sibling rivalry isn’t a parenting failure - it’s a natural part of growing up and learning how to share space, love, and attention. When you stop being the referee and start being a calm coach, you model empathy and problem-solving. These small, mindful shifts build long-term skills for your children: managing big feelings, resolving conflict, and repairing relationships with compassion. Instead of aiming for perfect harmony, you’ll learn how to create a family rhythm built on respect and emotional safety.

Take-Home Action

Next time your children start another round of sibling fights, pause before stepping in.
Say, “It looks like you’re having a hard time together. One at a time, tell me what’s going on.”
Listen to each child and reflect what you hear.
If things escalate, remember the mindful three-step tool: Describe – Limit – Separate.
You’re not fixing every fight - you’re guiding your kids toward calm communication.

Take the Next Step

Join me for The Calm Summer Blueprint - a one-hour live masterclass on 3 December designed to help parents handle sibling fights and daily routines with confidence and ease.
You’ll walk away with strategies to keep the peace, regulate your own emotions, and actually enjoy the holidays.
🎟 Early-bird pricing and bonuses are available now — register here
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Links and Resources Mentioned

• Siblings Without Rivalry by Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish (note, this is an affiliate link)
• Podcast Episodes:
• Ep12. Are You Really Listening to Your Child? Part 1: Why Kids Stop Talking
• Ep13. Are You Really Listening to Your Child? Part 2: How to Be a Better Listener
• Register for The Calm Summer Blueprint Masterclass
• Follow Nina on Instagram

About the Host

 Nina Visic is a mindful parenting coach, speaker, and mum of three energetic boys. Through her business Mindful Parenting Lifestyle and her podcast Your Calm Parenting Path, she helps parents go from overwhelmed and reactive to calm, confident, and connected. 

Drawing on mindfulness and Parent Effectiveness Training, Nina offers practical tools to help families manage sibling fights, reduce stress, and build stronger connections. She believes mindful parenting isn’t about perfection - it’s about presence, compassion, and small shifts that make a big impact.