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345. Q&A: Is it okay to discipline someone else’s child during a playdate?

345. Q&A: Is it okay to discipline someone else’s child during a playdate?

Update: 2025-09-25
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Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg, Dr. Emily Upshur, and I talk about...

 

  • Are there different “rules” when disciplining kids with a neurodiverse condition, like autism, if they act aggressively toward your child?

  • The difference between protecting your child and overstepping another parent’s role.

  • Practical, respectful ways to set boundaries with kids who aren’t yours.

  • How to manage playdates so everyone feels safe, supported, and set up for success.

  • Why parents’ “thresholds” for conflict differ, and how to navigate those differences with compassion.

  • The value of open communication (with other parents and your own child) in tricky social dynamics.

 

If you’ve ever found yourself unsure about intervening when someone else’s child crosses a line, this episode offers clear guidance, empathy, and strategies to help you respond with confidence while keeping all kids safe

 

 

 

REFERENCES AND RELATED RESOURCES:

 

🔗 Want to learn more about therapy and coaching at Upshur Bren Psychology Group? Visit upshurbren.com to explore our services and schedule a free 30-minute consultation call to find the support that’s right for your family.

 

 

ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

 

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about fostering secure attachment in your child's peer relationships with Dr. Eileen Kennedy-Moore

 

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about neurodivergent brains and sleep with Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown

 

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about treating autism with a strength based approach with Dr. Lynn Kern Koegel

 

 

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Go to https://drsarahbren.com/question to send us a question or a topic you want to hear us answer on Securely Attached - Beyond the Sessions!

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345. Q&A: Is it okay to discipline someone else’s child during a playdate?

345. Q&A: Is it okay to discipline someone else’s child during a playdate?

Dr. Sarah Bren