DiscoverThe Post-Separation Abuse Podcast60. Breaking the cycle: Three important steps to protective parenting
60. Breaking the cycle: Three important steps to protective parenting

60. Breaking the cycle: Three important steps to protective parenting

Update: 2025-09-16
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Navigating life after separation requires more than just knowing what your children need - it demands the capacity to advocate for them even when it's deeply uncomfortable. In this groundbreaking episode, I reveal my proprietary framework that's transformed hundreds of parents from conflict avoidant to genuinely protective.

The Three Steps to Protective Parenting® framework addresses the missing link in most post-separation advice. While professionals typically focus on providing information - communication scripts, legal strategies, parenting tips - they overlook the crucial element of capacity building. This oversight explains why so many parents remain stuck, unable to implement what they know is right for their children.

Capacity grows through gradually and intentionally facing manageable discomfort - not avoiding it. When you practice pausing before reacting to triggers, you're literally rewiring neural pathways between your prefrontal cortex and limbic system. This isn't just feel-good advice; it's neuroscience.

Ready to begin building your protective capacity today? Use the link to take on the Capacity Challenge, complete with printable PDF guide.

For comprehensive support, join the waitlist for the Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint launching later in September 2025, or book a one-on-one coaching call at danielleblackcoaching.com.au. Your children need you to be more than informed - they need you capable of acting even when it's difficult, and I'm here to help.

About Danielle Black:

Danielle Black is a respected authority in child-focused post-separation parenting in Australia, helping parents cut through professional pressure and harmful myths to make decisions based on what children actually need.

Having navigated her own complex separation and divorce, and guided hundreds of clients to successful outcomes, Danielle provides evidence-based strategies that challenge inappropriate arrangements and put children's wellbeing first.

The Post-Separation Abuse Podcast helps listeners to understand the nuances of ongoing control and other forms of abuse after separation, and challenges harmful myths about post-separation parenting and provides evidence-based guidance for protective parents.

Ready to transform your approach to parenting after separation?

Join The Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™ waitlist for exclusive early access, early bird pricing, and instant free mini-guide and private podcast episode: danielleblackcoaching.com.au


Follow Danielle on Instagram: @danielleblackcoaching


MORE SUPPORT (within Australia):

1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Lifeline: 13 11 14

13 YARN: 13 92 76 (24/7 crisis support phone line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples)


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60. Breaking the cycle: Three important steps to protective parenting

60. Breaking the cycle: Three important steps to protective parenting

Danielle Black