💁🏻‍♀️  Today we are talking to Jewaria who on the surface is living thé life: she is a model, a law graduate, online creative and raising the cutest little baby boy next to it. In this episode, we'll go further than what social media portrays and talk about her experience with sexual abuse, parental fear for rape when growing up and her rare skin disease Lichen Sclerosus that affects her genital area. At age 24 it seems Jewaria has already lived several lives, so let's get into it.  

💬  Jewaria's favourite self-love quote: "I love you, but I love myself more".   

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On our #bigsisteradvice talk with Jewaria:  

01:40 How would you describe Jewaria in one word?  

01:55 What does "feeling sexy" mean to you? 

02:15 How Jewaria's Vietnamese mom told Jewaria to claim her sexuality 

03:20 What is one thing you remember about sexuality when growing up? Jewaria tells us about her progressive mom 

04:45 How did your Vietnamese/Moroccan/Japanese/Dutch background influence your upbringing on the sexual front? Jewaria on the Asian parent fears that their children run the risk to be raped. 

08:25 Do you think that the cycle of "rape fear" can be broken?  

09:15 What do you think about the taboo that exists around sexuality and masturbation? Jewaria on her mom giving her 2 vibrators on her 16th 

11:20 Can you share more about your autoimmune disease Lichen Sclerosus? 

14:00 Does it affect your orgasms?  

15:30 Can you still have a clitoral orgasm?  

16:30 Jewaria on her sexual abuse experience and why girls should never have shame, guilt and think that it's their fault.  

17:55 What helped you get out of the sexual abuse guilt spiral?  

19:50 What was your mom's response to this childhood fear of hers? 

23:00 How Jewaria was drugged & his family's reaction to Jewaria's experience 

27:45 What are the red flags you should never ignore?  

28:50 Do you think you have overcome your experience and does it impact your current sexual life now? 

30:00 One piece of advice for all girls and women out there?  

31:20 Your favourite self-love quote?  

32:10 The toxic traits of social media that you only see the glamorous side and how people with influence should open up more   

For more on Jewaria check out her Instagram where she also uploaded a video on her sexual abuse experience https://www.instagram.com/jewaria/channel/