💦  We talk to Nili, who is originally Afghani but has lived in Pakistan, Germany, the US and now in Japan. Nili grew up in a religious household where the common belief is that a girl should be a virgin until she marries. She has broken away from that old school belief and refuses to stay silent about anything that brings her joy and laughter. 

🍃 Nili, also the "Squirt Queen", loves meditation, trips into nature, but also an occasional drunk night out that might result in finding the love of her night. 

🔥 Nili is irreverent, brilliant, and a badass with a personality that could light up the whole room. Listen in to know more about vaginal orgasms and squirting, intimacy in Afghani/German/Japanese households and Nili's tips on keeping a long term relationship healthy and spicy. 💬 Nili favourite self-love quotes: "What you expect is what you attract" and "Masturbate Everday!"

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- 01:32 Eden and Simona talk about life and being "crazy kids" 

- 04:00 Intro and ice breaker: Nili's first penetrative vaginal orgasm and squirting 

- 05:15 Sex keeping you young and Nili been the walking proof 

- 07:15 How was it growing up as an Afghani woman? About being a virgin, what society expected and how does that contrast with her German upbringing? 

- 11:00 What happens when sex is forbidden? 

- 14:00 Nili on discovering her sexuality 

- 14:40 How did you cope with having strict parents and such a deep curiosity for sexuality? 

- 14:51 Choosing friends that fit your personality and mindset 

- 16:06 How to separate feelings from lust? Going for your love of the night/day/week.

- 16:30 Do you have sex differently with the guys you like vs you don’t like? 

- 19:20 How to overcome boredom in long term relationships? How to keep a relationship exciting? 

- 20:40 What about swinging - does that keep your relationship healthy? 

- 21:40 Does monogamy still exist? 

- 23: 45 Is it always the girl who gets emotionally attached after sex? 

- 25:40 What is it that you do to make guys fall in love with you? 

- 27:50 Nili's explanation on "the 30-second orgasm", squirting and her craziest stories 

- 29:30 Can you train squirting? Are you born with this? 

- 32:10 Is squirting equal to having an orgasm? 

- 34:30 Are men going crazy about you because you can squirt? 

- 38:00 What do you use for squirting? How do lay your bed? (What Simona saw on TikTok https://www.amazon.nl/Guangyu-Waterdi...) 

- 39:00 What is the one piece of advice for all women and girls? What you expect is what you attract - 39:50 What is your favourite self love quote? Masturbate everyday! 

- 40:00 Advice for girls who don’t feel like masturbating or having sex? 

- 40:35 Why you shouldn’t feel ashamed about watching porn - 43:44 The Sex toy scene in Japan that is mainly focused on the man because Japanese porn is heavily male focused - 44:15 Japanese women who mainly prioritise pleasuring their men than pleasuring themselves - 45:05 Will the world turn into Japanese society: isolated and with cyber girl/boyfriends (afraid for love?)