78: Don't Wait, Just Do - Talking Values, Confidence and Human Behaviour with Carly Pepin
Description
Ever wondered why you do what you do—or why some goals feel impossible to achieve? In this episode of The Pursuit of Freedom, I sit down with human behavior coach Carly Pepin to break down the psychology behind our actions, the power of core values, and how understanding them can transform both your personal and professional life.
Carly shares her own journey into coaching, revealing how identifying core values is the key to unlocking confidence, motivation, and long-term success. We dive into the struggles of goal setting, the sneaky role of comfort zones, and why taking action—before you feel ready—is the secret to real growth.
We also explore how societal expectations shape decision-making, the impact of past experiences on our values, and why trial and error is essential to figuring out who you really are. Plus, Carly unpacks the paradox of freedom: how a little structure can actually lead to more freedom in life and business.
💡 Key Takeaways
- Core values drive behaviour: Understanding your core values helps you make aligned decisions and build confidence in both life and business.
- Action builds confidence: Waiting until you "feel ready" keeps you stuck—taking action first is the real key to growth.
- Comfort zones limit success: Pushing past familiar routines is necessary for personal and professional development.
- Freedom requires structure: Intentional systems and discipline can actually create more freedom, not less.
- Trial and error is essential: Discovering your true self means embracing mistakes and learning from them.
🔗 Links/Resources
- Sign up to get access to Carly's *FREE* masterclass in overcoming imposter syndrome: https://www.carlypepin.com/podcast-gift
📖 Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Human Behaviour Coaching
03:09 Understanding Human Behavior and Core Values
06:17 Identifying Core Values in Daily Life
09:13 The Impact of Shoulds and Have-Tos
11:56 Goal Setting and Motivation
14:58 Navigating Comfort Zones and Personal Growth
17:48 Maintaining Motivation and Recognizing Misalignment
23:22 Redefining Online Presence and Income Generation
24:50 Thriving in Your Unique Business Structure
26:10 Building Confidence Through Action
28:18 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome and Comparison
29:48 The Journey of Starting a Business
32:28 The Importance of Engaging with Your Business
34:53 Finding Your Natural Strengths
37:03 Crafting a Purpose-Driven Life
38:46 Aligning Goals with Values
41:24 The Evolution of Goals and Values
43:52 The Impact of Trauma on Financial Values
46:16 Shifting Values Through Linking and Personal Growth
48:09 The Role of Coaching in Value Discovery
51:03 Navigating Subordination and Personal Values
54:57 Finding Freedom Through Structure and Restrictions
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