93: Toe-worker

93: Toe-worker

Update: 2024-07-04
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Beverly, a caller, is seeking advice on how to deal with a coworker named Diamond who habitually removes her shoes in the office. The hosts, Jake and Gareth, brainstorm various strategies, including sending a doctor's note from their "therapist" selves, writing a letter to the boss citing a spider phobia, or simply having a direct conversation with the boss. They ultimately advise Beverly to have a private conversation with her boss, expressing her discomfort with Diamond's shoelessness and requesting a move to another part of the office. The hosts emphasize the importance of being direct and honest while maintaining a respectful tone. Beverly expresses her appreciation for the advice and rates the hosts' help as a "15 out of 10." The hosts encourage her to take action and share her experience.

Outlines

00:00:00
Introduction

This Chapter introduces the podcast and its hosts, Jake and Gareth. They welcome the listeners and set the stage for the episode.

00:00:25
Jake's July 4th Hike

This Chapter recounts Jake's experience on a July 4th hike with a friend, which resulted in a foot injury requiring stitches. He shares the story as a humorous anecdote and a testament to the podcast's unique and often bizarre nature.

00:01:13
Jake's Tesla Trouble

This Chapter details Jake's frustrating experience with his Tesla, which left him stranded after his phone overheated and locked him out of his car. He describes the situation as a "life moment" and reflects on the inconveniences of modern technology.

00:01:53
Jiu-Jitsu and a Locked Car

This Chapter recounts Jake's attempt to attend a jiu-jitsu class, which was interrupted by a locked car due to his overheated phone. He humorously describes the situation as being "bullied" by his car and the challenges of navigating a technology-dependent world.

00:02:19
Kevin's Studio Update

This Chapter provides an update on Kevin's studio, which is nearing completion. He shares his excitement about the new space and his plans for future content.

00:26:42
Lou Ann's Friendship Problem

This Chapter features a caller named Lou Ann from La Crosse, Wisconsin, who seeks advice on how to end a one-sided friendship with a high school acquaintance who sends her weekly Instagram messages. She describes the situation as a decade-long annoyance and expresses her desire to reduce the frequency of the messages.

00:44:49
Beverly's Barefoot Coworker

This Chapter features a follow-up call from Beverly, who previously sought advice on dealing with a coworker who habitually removes her shoes in the office. Beverly shares her attempts to address the situation, including mentioning spiders and sprinkling carpet deodorizer on the coworker's side of the cubicle. She describes the coworker's response as a denial of any sense of smell and a belief that Beverly has a spider phobia.

00:52:42
Advice for Beverly

This Chapter focuses on providing advice to Beverly on how to handle her coworker who habitually goes barefoot in the office. The hosts suggest various strategies, including a doctor's note and a direct conversation with the boss. They emphasize the importance of being direct and honest while maintaining a respectful tone.

Keywords

Instagram


Instagram is a social media platform where users can share photos and videos, connect with friends and family, and follow their interests. It is known for its visual content and its ability to create a sense of community.

Friendship


Friendship is a close relationship between two or more people who share common interests, values, and experiences. It is characterized by mutual trust, respect, and support.

Ghosting


Ghosting is the act of abruptly ending communication with someone without explanation, often through social media or text messaging. It is considered a form of social rejection and can be hurtful to the person being ghosted.

La Crosse, Wisconsin


La Crosse is a city in southwestern Wisconsin, known for its scenic location on the Mississippi River. It is home to the University of Wisconsin-La Crosse and is a popular destination for outdoor recreation.

Arkansas


Arkansas is a state in the Southern United States, known for its natural beauty, including the Ozark Mountains and the Ouachita Mountains. It is also home to the Arkansas River, which flows through the state from west to east.

Barefoot


Barefoot refers to the state of being without shoes or other footwear. It is often associated with a sense of freedom and connection to nature.

Spider Phobia


Spider phobia, also known as arachnophobia, is an intense and irrational fear of spiders. It is a common phobia and can cause significant anxiety and distress.

Cubicle


A cubicle is a small, enclosed workspace within a larger office. It is typically used to provide individual workspaces for employees.

Lifestyle


Lifestyle refers to the way a person lives, including their habits, values, and interests. It is often influenced by factors such as culture, income, and personal preferences.

Doctor's Note


A doctor's note is a written statement from a medical professional that confirms a patient's condition or need for a specific accommodation. It is often used to excuse absences from work or school or to request special arrangements.

Q&A

  • What is Lou Ann's problem?

    Lou Ann is dealing with a one-sided friendship with a high school acquaintance who sends her weekly Instagram messages, despite Lou Ann only responding a handful of times in a decade.

  • What advice do the hosts give Lou Ann?

    The hosts suggest various strategies to end the unwanted messages, including sending overly religious texts, flooding her inbox with boring emails about geology or her cats, sending gibberish texts, responding from the perspective of a cat, or simply replying with "I farted" to every message.

  • What is Beverly's problem?

    Beverly is dealing with a coworker who habitually removes her shoes in the office. She has tried to address the situation by mentioning spiders and sprinkling carpet deodorizer on the coworker's side of the cubicle.

  • What is the coworker's response to Beverly's attempts?

    The coworker claims to have no sense of smell and believes that Beverly has a spider phobia.

  • What is the takeaway from Lou Ann and Beverly's calls?

    The calls highlight the challenges of navigating social situations and the importance of finding creative solutions to address unwanted behavior. They also demonstrate the power of humor and absurdity in dealing with difficult people.

  • What advice do the hosts give Beverly?

    The hosts suggest various strategies for Beverly to deal with her coworker, including writing a doctor's note, writing a letter to the boss citing a spider phobia, or simply having a direct conversation with the boss. They ultimately advise her to have a private conversation with her boss, expressing her discomfort with the coworker's shoelessness and requesting a move to another part of the office.

  • What is the hosts' main advice to Beverly?

    The hosts advise Beverly to have a private conversation with her boss, expressing her discomfort with her coworker's shoelessness and requesting a move to another part of the office. They emphasize the importance of being direct and honest while maintaining a respectful tone.

  • How does Beverly rate the hosts' help?

    Beverly rates the hosts' help as a "15 out of 10."

  • What is the hosts' final advice to Beverly?

    The hosts encourage Beverly to take action and share her experience.

Show Notes

Jake and Gareth talk to a law student whose family keeps asking for legal advice and someone who is unsuccessfully ghosting an old friend. 

Later, the guys follow up with the first caller from episode 86 “Seeing Past the Piggies.”


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