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ADHD and people-pleasing: Why can’t you stop?

ADHD and people-pleasing: Why can’t you stop?

Update: 2025-09-09
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For some women with ADHD, people-pleasing is more than just being nice. It’s a way to cope with feeling overwhelmed or misunderstood.

In this episode, Dr. Monica Johnson breaks down what people-pleasing looks like in women with ADHD. Find out how this coping mechanism can impact your life. And learn helpful strategies to stop people-pleasing and live a healthier life.

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(00:00 ) Intro

(00:39 ) What does people-pleasing look like in ADHD?

(2:48 ) Why ADHD leads to people-pleasing

(4:31 )The hidden costs of people-pleasing 
(7:10 ) Tips for managing people-pleasing 

For a transcript and more resources, visit the MissUnderstood: ADHD in Women page on Understood.org. 

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ADHD and people-pleasing: Why can’t you stop?

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