For many years I have been stuck in an all or nothing thinking. I adapted this way of thinking because of how I was raised , the trauma I was exposed to during the early childhood developmental stages and early adolescent stages of life. I would say that for me pretty early on in life , I adapted a pretty negative perception of the world. I was exposed, like many others to very negative people and places. As I have been growing as a young adult and maturing as a woman, one of the cycles that I have been determined to change was the way I was viewing life, my life to be exact. I now understand that it is my responsibility to address the way certain things are affecting my life, thinking , behaviors. Being apart of the Adult Entertainment business something that I have noticed a pattern in , is the perception that you are supposed to live your life a certain way and if you don't you become apart of a 'label' that no one wants to identify as. When truthfully so many , even myself included at one point, took that narrative and believed thats how my life should be lived. When truthfully, my live should be lived up to standard to my own morals and values. I hope I can encourage you to see life from a different perspective. 

xo