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Are You Stuck in Your Old Identity and How to shift out of It

Are You Stuck in Your Old Identity and How to shift out of It

Update: 2025-12-08
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Have you ever had a moment in your life where you realise you’re not the same person you’ve been for years? The roles you’ve held and the identity you’ve been living in suddenly feel out of alignment, especially when you’re moving through big life transitions and personal growth.

Most of us don’t talk about identity shifts, especially when they show up during big life transitions in our family, business or career. They can feel uncomfortable, emotional and hard to explain while you’re in the middle of all that change and personal growth. They usually arrive in seasons where something ends, something new begins and you’re standing in the middle trying to understand who you’re becoming next.

In this episode, I chat about what it’s really like to let go of an old version of yourself and step into a new chapter. Which is exactly what’s happened to me recently. If you’ve been feeling stuck, restless or unsure of who you are becoming outside of your everyday roles, this conversation is for you.


  “ You are allowed to outgrow the life that you built. You’re allowed to want something different, and you’re allowed to become someone new..”  - Kylie Walker 

We cover:

  • What identity shifts really feel like when you’re going through big life changes like kids finishing school, career transitions and letting go of routines you’ve lived in for years
  •  How I realised my identity as a mum was changing and why it pushed me to reflect on what this next season might mean for me
  •  The impact of selling my business and leaving my hometown and how those decisions made me aware of how strongly my identity had been tied to certain roles
  • Why so many of us stay stuck in old identities after we’ve outgrown them and how we can start noticing the signs that it’s time to shift into who we’re becoming next
  • How to recognise when your current identity is no longer aligned with the person you’re becoming
  • The key questions that helped me understand what I truly want now rather than who I thought I needed to be in the past
  • How journalling, reflection and checking in with my future self supported my personal growth and helped me reconnect with who I want to be in this next stage of life
  • Why it’s important to give yourself permission to disappoint people when you’re choosing a life that supports your wellbeing and goals
  • How identity change happens through taking simple steps at a time, not through burning everything down at once


Kylie’s Resources:

Property Management Growth School: https://courses.thatpropertymum.com.au/TPM-BDMSchool

 Digital Marketing School: https://courses.thatpropertymum.com.au/digitalschool

 That Property Mum Courses: https://www.thatpropertymum.com.au/courses/

 The PM Accelerate Membership: https://courses.thatpropertymum.com.au/accelerate

 Book a Strategy Call with Kylie: https://calendly.com/kylie-tpm/coaching-call 

 Kolmeo: https://kolmeo.com/

 Find out about our Done for You Lead Generation - https://calendly.com/kylie-tpm/done-for-you-leads-discovery-call

35 AI Prompts to help you Grow your Business on Social Media: https://courses.thatpropertymum.com.au/35-prompts-to-grow-your-property-management-business-on-social-media


Connect With Kylie:

Follow Kylie Walker on Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/thatpropertymum_/

Follow Kylie on Facebook - https://web.facebook.com/thatpropertymum

Connect with Kylie on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/kylie-wal...

Explore Kylie's Website - https://www.thatpropertymum.com.au/

Watch Kylie on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thatpropertymum


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Are You Stuck in Your Old Identity and How to shift out of It

Are You Stuck in Your Old Identity and How to shift out of It