Identify the 18 worst traits, early.

Based
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Dating can be a thrilling adventure, full of exciting possibilities. But it’s important to be aware of potential red flags that might signal a less-than-ideal partner. While everyone has their quirks, some behaviors can be toxic and detrimental to a healthy relationship.
You may have a great sexual chemistry, but partnership is a bonding of your souls. To that end, finding emotional intimacy is a bigger challenge than sexual intimacy.

Relationships are hard enough without choosing a partner who adds unnecessary drama and toxicity. It’s good to have standards and protect your own peace!

18 Types Of Women Who Make Terrible Partners

By Emma Mills

Let’s break down some of the types of women who are likely to create more headaches than happiness in the long run.

 

1. The woman who plays the victim in every situation.

Nothing is ever her fault. She constantly blames her problems on bad luck, other people, or circumstances outside her control. This lack of accountability makes growth and healthy conflict resolution impossible in a relationship, Esther Perel points out.



2. The woman who refuses to compromise.

Relationships take compromise, but she’s a “my way or the highway” kind of person. Her needs and desires always come first, and if you don’t bend over backwards to accommodate them, you’re labeled selfish or uncaring.

 

3. The chronically jealous and insecure woman.

Some jealousy is normal, but she takes it to an extreme. She constantly needs reassurance, accuses you of being interested in others, checks your phone, and tries to isolate you from friends. A relationship built on distrust and possessiveness instead of mutual respect is doomed.

 

4. The woman who can’t be alone.

She rushes from one relationship to the next and hates being single. This often stems from insecurity and an inability to be alone with her own thoughts. These relationships tend to be intense, codependent, and lack healthy boundaries.

 

5. The emotionally manipulative woman.

She’s a master at using guilt trips, tears, or withholding affection to get what she wants. Healthy relationships are built on honest communication, not manipulation. It’s exhausting trying to navigate her ever-changing emotions to avoid upsetting her.



6. The woman who sees every past relationship as the “crazy ex.”

If a string of exes have all been “crazy,” “unreasonable,” or “total narcissists,” it’s likely not them – it’s her. She refuses to own her role in past relationship breakdowns, which is a recipe for repeating those same patterns with you.

 

7. The woman who needs to be the center of attention.

She thrives on drama and needs all eyes on her. She might interrupt conversations, make everything about herself, or even stir up conflict just to get a reaction. It’s impossible to feel like an equal partner with someone this self-absorbed.

 

8. The woman who refuses to apologize or admit when she’s wrong.

Mistakes happen, but she takes any admission of fault as a sign of weakness. She’ll twist situations to paint herself as the victim, even when clearly in the wrong. Relationships can’t grow without two people taking responsibility for their actions.



9. The woman who gossips and speaks badly about others.

If she gossips about others, she’ll likely gossip about you when you’re not around. She can’t be trusted, and creates a toxic atmosphere where you never feel completely safe. Constantly tearing others down is a major sign of