Betting her Ass.

Another look at ‘girls night out.’

Based on a post by Farmer
Jill. Listen to the Podcast at Steamy Stories.

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It was the usual thing, Dexter and Mia Johnson were married
19 years, and everyone thinks they have it all together. They met at a 4th of
July fireworks. The fireworks were over, and it started to rain. Dexter had a
coat and Mia didn't. He lent her his and the rest is history. Two kids came
along, Allison and Amy. Two good kids, two good jobs, a nice house in the
suburbs. Dexter and Mia were more in love now than when they first married.

The only thing Dexter could complain about was Mia's friends
Cynthia and Roxanne. Cynthia or Cyndi (sounds like sin for a reason) was
married to Chet, and they had no children. Cyndi was a beautiful woman. She
knew it and used it. Cyndi liked to try new things and always talked about the
latest concepts. They weren't always new ideas, but they were new to her, and
she spoke about them with passion like a true believer. Cyndi's latest was that
the three women should start going out one night a month together, the dreaded
girls' night out ( or Girls’ Night, for short).

Roxanne went by Roxy, and if Cyndi was beautiful, Roxy was
gorgeous. She was married to Tom. They had a single child. Roxy wasn't the
sharpest knife in the drawer and usually would get drawn into Cyndi's latest
ideas. Sometimes this caused Roxy some grief because she didn't always
"get" all the fine details of Cyndi's latest obsession. TikTok trends
were an example of this. Cyndi got into a phase of TikTok and never should have
told Roxy about "The one chip challenge." Luckily, Roxy only had some
bad diarrhea. Thankfully, Tom or Mia usually caught Roxy before she did
something really stupid.

Dexter was used to laughing as Mia told him about Cyndi's
latest and greatest but when the topic of a girl's night out came up he did not
laugh.

"Mia I'm not sure if you're asking me if you can go or
just telling me about it but it's a hard no."

Mia was taken aback, Dexter had hard lines, but she hadn't
been near one in a while.

"Dex, what do you mean, hard no? Cyndi said that this
could be good for a marriage. I also don't like you saying hard no, you can't
order me around."

"Mia, when we got married, we committed to one another.
That means we have a veto over the other person. In my mind, it means that each
person should know what would be a veto thing to the other and therefore not do
it in the first place, or in other words, use a self-veto. Let me give you a
real-world example. 3 weeks ago, all of the guys were going to the stripper bar
after work because Davis was getting married. I didn't think you would like me
to go to a stripper bar. I also didn't think it was appropriate for me to go. I
imposed a veto on myself and told them I wasn't going. I gave Tony $50 bucks to
buy a round on me, and I came home. Maybe you would have said yes, maybe you
wouldn't care but I don't think it is appropriate behavior for me, your
husband. If I had of wanted to go and asked you and you said no, I would not
have gone and respected your veto."

Mia spent some time digesting Dexter's words. Part of the
reason they had such a good marriage is because they talked things out. Mia
also remembered a few times when Cyndi's schemes had almost cost them money
before Dexter pointed out the flaws.

"Dex I wasn't sure if I was going to ask you if I could
go along, but now I don't have to. I am not going but I am interested to see if
what Cyndi think's it will achieve will actually happen."

"Mia I love you more than anything, and I'm glad you
aren't going to go with Cyndi and Roxy. I would also be interested to hear
about whether or not it pans out like Cyndi thinks."

Dexter never wanted to close the door on communication.
Moreover, he knew he had been kind of harsh and didn't want Mia to think him as
a bully. He was not changing his mind however, about the Girls’ Night. Dexter
was also taking nothing for granted and was going to talk to Chet and Tom as
soon as possible.

Three days later while they were eating supper, Mia told
Dexter about Cyndi and Roxy's Girls’ Night the night before. Mia was pretty
excited.

"Umm, Dex; Cyndi and Roxy went out last night,
Thursday's is lady's night at Maxi's. They told me it was great."

Dexter pondered for a moment, something about Maxi's was out
there that he couldn't remember. Then it came to him.

"Isn't Maxi's like a pickup bar?"

"I'm not sure about that, but it is the happ'n place to
be in this town. Cyndi said that Chet didn't know what hit him when she got
home. Roxy said that Tom liked how rejuvenated she was. So far, this seems to
be working like they said."

Mia knew better than to push any harder about the Girls’
Night and going with her friends. She definitely wanted to go with them, but
Dexter said no, and it wasn't worth a big fight.

The following Wednesday Dexter met up with Chet and Tom for
a beer. After beers were ordered, Dexter got to the point.

"Thanks for coming, Chet and Tom. I really appreciate
you coming out to speak with me. I was wondering about your wives and them
going out together once a month."

Chet laughed,

"Yes, the good'ole girl's night out. Cyndi's latest
thing. What would you like to know?"

"It seems your wives have been telling my wife Mia
about how great it is. Specifically, that it has made a difference in the
bedroom."

Now Tom laughed,

"That's a laugh, Roxy came home the first time all hot
and bothered and wanted to get it on. She was all worked up. I said No thanks.
I told her that I had no interest in being the vicarious recipient of her lust
for other guys. She wasn't happy about that, and tried to deny it. I told her
that once she was truly excited for me, lusting for me, then I would be
available. She was shocked that I turned her down for sex. The girls went out
on Thursday, and by Saturday, she was all over me, once the kid went to bed.
Sure, it was great, but I think there was some left-over lust from Thursday
that reduced it from awesome."

Chet had taken a different approach,

"That's a good idea, but it's not what I did. Instead,
on the Wednesday night before, I took Cyndi to bed right after supper and gave
her my best. By the time we fell asleep, I was worn out. When she came home the
next night from her Girls’ Night, I pretended to be asleep; so any amorous
intentions she might have had, didn't get fulfilled."

Dexter tried to match up what the husbands said, with what
their wives told Mia. Then Chet continued,

"What about you Dex? Why isn't Mia going with our wives
to the Girls’ Night?"

"I told her no. I told her that we had veto rights over
the other's actions, and I didn't want her to go. I told her I saw no benefit,
only a downside."

Tom was impressed,

"That's what I should have done. Sorry Chet, but Cyndi
tends to lead Roxy down the garden path. Anyways it made me sit down with Roxy
and have a serious conversation about fidelity; and that if she did anything
that didn't pass the husband test we’re done. What did Mia specifically say
they told her?"

"She said that your wife was rejuvenated by the
experience; and that Chet didn't know what hit him."

Chet laughed louder,

"I think that Cyndi got that confused; she said that to
me, after I wore her out on Wednesday. She said, What got into you? I don't
know what hit me.' She liked our Wednesdays before her Girls’ Night, at least
that's what she told me. So, I guess in a way it is good for us, but frankly
I've never complained about the sex with Cyndi, anyways."

Tom looked confused,

"Rejuvenated, is not the word I would use, but it sort
of works. Roxy, before this Girls’ Night thing wasn't initiating very much, but
now she did. Not that she turned me down very often, when I initiated. But you
know, it's nice when they come after you for a change."

Dexter was feeling much better about things after he left
the bar. Chet and Tom seemed to have things well-in-hand. Mia said nothing
about the Girls’ Night for the next couple of months, but her friends wouldn't
let it go, that she wasn't coming. Cyndi especially wanted to get Mia to come.
Cyndi had discovered something called the hotwife lifestyle that she wanted to
couple with the Girls’ Night. She called Mia and invited her out for coffee on
the Monday before the women were having another Thursday Girls’ Night. Cyndi
was already seated when Mia arrived.

"Hi Cyndi, what's so important that we have to meet for
coffee today?"

"Oh, Mia! There's so much to tell you. But first I have
to ask, can you remind me why don't you come to our girls’ night out?"

Mia was a little embarrassed about this. She had told Cyndi
and Roxy she wasn't interested; she didn't want to tell them that Dexter said
no.

"I'm just not interested Cyndi; it's not my
thing."

"Come on, Mia! It's loads of fun. It makes a girl feel
young and wanted, desired even."

"Dex wants me, I'm certain he desires me, I don't need
anyone else for that."

"Come on Mia, you aren't even a little bit interested
in seeing what happens? Maybe Roxy and I are doing things there, that have really
spiced things up in the be