Patience is the virtue that we all seek. We are currently in an era that has awakened an impatience for anything!  Everything has a non preparatory aspect to it. It's called pop it in the microwave and in a few minutes it's done. Life doesn’t truly happen that way. But the internet has spoiled us to think so. Another thing is that we are extremely  focused on what, and who we want. Rather than who or what we need. Our wants and cravings will send life into an out of control tailspin. Because, most not all of the time what we want is no good for us. He feels like sour yogurt is placed in our stomachs. It seemed to have a great taste while going down, but once in our systems, it was toxic.Now, why would you want to feel out of it? Life is meant to be enjoyed.


When we want something or someone, they bring us a displeasure that hardens our hearts, cripples our self-esteem, and gets us to help them devalue who we are. You don't need that eye candy if he is not showing you chivalry, appreciation, and support. But because you and I can be impatient, we cannot see past that. We don't need that Gucci tote bag right now. It doesn't matter our cravings when we do things that align us with a path not chosen for us. This is practicing impatience.


A few ways to deal with this is, 


1 Meditate, silence all the lambs and lions in your world. Turn on some environment music or just sit in total peace and quiet.


2. Unpack your goals the right way, this means to make your large task towards your goals measurable and smaller.


3. Oh boy, this is the duzzy for me. Learn to Focus on what you can control. Everything is not in my control. Every situation will not happen as I would like. So I have to take the aspect that I love to plan out the equation and just let life happen.


4. Every comment or Action doesn't deserve our reaction. Sometimes people and situations will make you want to handle them. But it's unnecessary drama added to the issue their pushing, or that happening the best to do is to respond to what's necessary and leave the rest for them to deal with. It does not matter how big the rumor is. Your reaction gives lies validity. 


5. Set specific and much-needed boundaries. Everyone can't be, nor should they be in your inner court.


6. Lastly, practice gratitude. Appreciate the underappreciated. But appreciate those assisting you on your whole woman journey. Thankfulness makes the world go round As always I say write it down, Make this a journal prompt. Having patience is beyond a virtue,  learning to accept the timing of gifts, changes, people, and blessings being presented to you in the right season. You are a woman of patience and virtue, you are a woman who patiently  waits with expectancy.