Have you ever wanted a car, a dress, anything tangible so much? You dotted all your I's and crossed every T's to be told, no, you can't have that! This or that will not work for you.


Many times we hear behind every 20 No's there is someone who's waiting to present us with a yes. 


But when going through our seasons of doubt of ever hearing what we want to hear and uncertainty, we can't see why there was ever a no. We feel disconnected and frustrated. We may even sleep, eat, and take a shower marinating on the number of times we have experienced hearing the word No!


However, instead of focusing and giving the No influence, we should revisit and revamp our approach. Something surrounding that No you were given, wasn't appropriately done or completed. Something was, or was not, said that was off. Research is missing. Or maybe those 20 people feel No is the right word for you.



Our yes’s come in seasons. If Yes, came all the time we would be un-sobered spoiled adults acting like children. Hearing No builds character. Hearing No builds might, hearing No gives you a never give up attitude. We have all heard that term. Everything that glitters is not gold. So everything we want is not always for us. So we have to use our inner intuition ladies and see why that product, person, or opportunity, has been held back from us? It could just be that before we get our yes, we have to grow a thicker skin, stamina to push forward to #21  answers which could finally  be our Yes!


As always I say write it down,

make this a journal prompt, and remember the last no you heard won't stop the Yes, that's coming your way. Ladies, if you stay persistent. Staying at it is Key, to Hearing and Celebrating your Yes! Finally,  after being bottled down by the No's body shots in the corner of the ring of opportunity. You come out giving it all you got with an uppercut here and there, as you fight your way to the middle of the ring, towards that one if not two Yes's. No is not an option.  Your yes is very near. Don't give up. Tour yes is calling you.