If you are easily offended, we will easily lose our footing in life. You should never allow others to dictate how we feel about ourselves or them after interacting. Giving someone the responsibility of caring how we feel after they have offended, disregarded, or pushed us to the side in any way does nothing but break us down in the wrong scenarios. 


We must never take offense to someone else's actions. When we do that we give them footing into our worlds. Life begins to take on a new meaning when we allow what others have embedded in us to rule over what we know to be true. Life is like a box of chocolates Ladies, it's always going to deliver something chewy , yummy, crunchy, and yucky that will sometimes knock you off your feet and get you to see red coming from someone who is far off or near your inner circle. 


Everyone has an assumption, opinion and idea to make you a greater you. It's not what they say, it's how we react to it.You have the responsibility of guarding things from entering into your head mind and soul that render no substance.


Be mindful of how you invite others into your Conversations and life experiences no matter how small. 


Write this down, make it a journal prompt.

It's none of our business how others come at us, for ,or to us. It's our business how we handle it and how much importance we actually give the person's assumption, interaction, or issue with us. Someone will always have a viewpoint or opinion to share. You rightfully have the responsibility to respond or not respond intelligently. 


Keep a poised and elegant posture about you  at all times when dealing with outsiders. What they say should be heard. But you don't always have to intake it. If what they are saying has no relevance. Never give it credence. Your reaction is just what they need to get the picture. Sometimes a none reaction says more than anything. Grow tough skin that can’t be peeled off easily by others.Let them be assured and in their assumptions and thoughts. It's none of our business.