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Connie Zweig: How We Self-Sabotage: Understanding Your Shadow

Connie Zweig: How We Self-Sabotage: Understanding Your Shadow

Update: 2025-08-11
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SHADOW is a Jungian concept that refers to those traits we have suppressed in ourselves that may be waiting to find expression in our lives. This week Connie Zweig PhD returns to the podcast to talk about shadow-work for conscious relationships. 


We explore:



  • How the unconscious erupts in our lives and sabotages our relationships

  • Why we can become caught up in repetitive arguments, criticism, distancing, projections, or addictions.

  • How the shadow forms in childhood and how to detect it when it emerges

  • Making a conscious relationship to the shadow, and choosing different outcomes.


Connie Zweig, Ph.D., is a retired psychotherapist, writer, and Climate Reality Leader. Known as the Shadow Expert, she has written several books about shadow-work, including  Meeting the Shadow: The Hidden Power of the Dark Side of Human Nature and Romancing the Shadow: A Guide to Soul Work for a Vital, Authentic Life, both of which have recently been reissued.  Connie has been doing contemplative practices for more than 50 years, and is a wife, stepmother and grandmother. 


If You’re Looking for More….


You can subscribe to The Meaningful Life (via Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts) and hear a bonus mini-episode every week. Or you can join our Supporters Club on Patreon to also access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests  and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50


This week supporters will hear:



  • Psychology of Evil

  • Three Things Connie Zweig knows to be true. 

  • AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees.


Follow Up


Attend Andrew's new men's retreat, Reconnect With Yourself, this autumn in the Brandenberg countryside near Berlin 


Get Andrew’s free guide to difficult conversations with your partner: How to Tell Your Partner Difficult Things 


Read Connie Zweig’s books:






Explore Connie Zweig’s Substack, Shadow Work to Expand Awareness 


Listen to Connie Zweig’s podcast with her husband, Dr Neil’s Spiritual Awakening to Non-Duality


Visit Connie Zweig’s website https://conniezweig.com 


Follow  Connie Zweig on Twitter @InnerWorkofAge and on Facebook at @Dr.ConnieZweig


Take a look at Andrew’s new online relationship course: My Best Relationship Tools 


Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall 






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Connie Zweig: How We Self-Sabotage: Understanding Your Shadow

Connie Zweig: How We Self-Sabotage: Understanding Your Shadow

Andrew G. Marshall