Do you ever feel pulled between family expectations and the relationship you’re trying to build? In today’s episode, Emilia and Alan talk about what happens when couples stop following old family rules and start choosing what truly supports love, growth, and emotional safety. You’ll learn how “old world” patterns keep partners stuck, why the holidays trigger so much stress, and how stepping into a “new world” together can strengthen communication, alignment, and connection.

With simple relationship frameworks and real client breakthroughs, this conversation shows you how to break generational cycles, create healthier traditions, and build a partnership that feels true to who you are becoming.

Show notes:
(2:44 ) Creating your own rule book
(4:10 ) Old world Vs. New world
(7:20 ) Butterfly metaphor for growth
(10:08 ) Family roles that shape us
(14:15 ) Choosing aligned traditions together
(22:16 ) Honest partnership conversations
(26:36 ) Books for Babes impact
(30:37 ) Outro

Digital Assets:
1. Alan, Emilia & Tucker 2019
2. The Growth Journey
3. Dysfunctional Family Roles
4. Family Roles - Dysfunctional to Functional

Learn more about:
Books for Babes gives children hope and possibility by putting meaningful stories in their hands. When we give a book, we give a future – GoFundMe donation link:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/books-for-babes-annual-fundraiser-2025

The “Next Level Hope Foundation” creates meaningful experiences for kids growing up without a father figure and builds a positive, supportive community around them.
To support this event, you can donate here: https://gofund.me/5c6abcf7f

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