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Dancing in the Grey: Letting Go of All-or-Nothing

Dancing in the Grey: Letting Go of All-or-Nothing

Update: 2025-10-01
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In this 7-minute solo episode, Michelle unpacks one of the biggest roadblocks she sees: the “all-or-nothing” mindset. Instead of treating a PDF plan like a pass/fail test, she shows how to “dance in the grey” with flexible tools—Daily Minimums, Good/Better/Best tiers, simple If-Then pivots, and the 3 Ms (Move, Meal, Mindset)—so progress keeps moving even on messy days. You’ll leave with a permission slip to do your best today… knowing your best will look different tomorrow.

What You’ll Learn

  • Why rigid, pass/fail plans stall progress
  • How to set Daily Minimums (a tiny “floor” for tough days)
  • The Good/Better/Best framework to keep momentum
  • Quick If-Then pivots when life derails your schedule
  • The 3 Ms that anchor your day: Move, Meal, Mindset

Timestamps

  • 00:00 Intro: the perfection trap
  • 00:40 The roadblock: “If it’s not perfect, why bother?”
  • 01:20 Michelle’s turning point
  • 02:05 Why all-or-nothing fails you
  • 02:45 Reframe: plans are menus, not mandates
  • 03:10 The Dance in the Grey method (Daily Minimums, G/B/B, If-Then, 3 Ms)
  • 05:00 Real-life examples
  • 05:45 One-sentence mindset shift
  • 06:00 Closing + invite

Try This Week

  • Set your Daily Floor for movement, protein, and mindset.
  • Define Good/Better/Best for one habit you care about.
  • Write your Permission Slip: “I am allowed to make progress imperfectly.”

Quote to Remember
“Your plan is a tool, not a test.”


If you loved today’s conversation, I’d love for you to take the next step with me! You can explore my Midlife Magic Membership at www.michellebazinet.com — it’s where women just like you learn how to thrive in midlife with confidence, strength, and ease.

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Dancing in the Grey: Letting Go of All-or-Nothing

Dancing in the Grey: Letting Go of All-or-Nothing

Michelle Bazinet