Dancing in the Grey: Letting Go of All-or-Nothing
Description
In this 7-minute solo episode, Michelle unpacks one of the biggest roadblocks she sees: the “all-or-nothing” mindset. Instead of treating a PDF plan like a pass/fail test, she shows how to “dance in the grey” with flexible tools—Daily Minimums, Good/Better/Best tiers, simple If-Then pivots, and the 3 Ms (Move, Meal, Mindset)—so progress keeps moving even on messy days. You’ll leave with a permission slip to do your best today… knowing your best will look different tomorrow.
What You’ll Learn
- Why rigid, pass/fail plans stall progress
- How to set Daily Minimums (a tiny “floor” for tough days)
- The Good/Better/Best framework to keep momentum
- Quick If-Then pivots when life derails your schedule
- The 3 Ms that anchor your day: Move, Meal, Mindset
Timestamps
- 00:00 Intro: the perfection trap
- 00:40 The roadblock: “If it’s not perfect, why bother?”
- 01:20 Michelle’s turning point
- 02:05 Why all-or-nothing fails you
- 02:45 Reframe: plans are menus, not mandates
- 03:10 The Dance in the Grey method (Daily Minimums, G/B/B, If-Then, 3 Ms)
- 05:00 Real-life examples
- 05:45 One-sentence mindset shift
- 06:00 Closing + invite
Try This Week
- Set your Daily Floor for movement, protein, and mindset.
- Define Good/Better/Best for one habit you care about.
- Write your Permission Slip: “I am allowed to make progress imperfectly.”
Quote to Remember
“Your plan is a tool, not a test.”
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