This episode deals with important questions such as 'how do you support someone who's in the grip of addiction to a substance or abusive person?' and 'should you warn someone if you have experienced abuse at the hands of somebody they're involved with?' 

We also discuss Clare's Law, where you can request information on any person of concern to discover whether they have a police record of abuse against women. 

It's a rich one that covers lots of topics. There's enough links to background material in this one to keep you busy for a couple of weeks. Enjoy!

UK Government's Clare's Law (Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme) https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/domestic-abuse-bill-2020-factsheets/domestic-violence-disclosure-scheme-factsheet

Sammy's Narcissism YouTube on Clare's Law: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fd1Usecm5Nw 

Sammy's Narcissism YouTube on 24 Hours in Police Custody - a female narcissist in action: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9nX9X5jIM40 

Watch Holy Hell trailer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2f2BG43JW0o  - you can rent the full-length documentary on YouTube or Google for a few quid. And another clip: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KwfJoHt_ywE

Melanie Tonia Evans NARP program - recovery after narcissistic abuse.

HG Tudor - an 'out' psychopath who debunks how others do it and offers advice: https://narcsite.com

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