Encore: Find Joy in YOUR Unique Gifts
Description
Do you feel like you're living a pins and needles life? A life of people-pleasing and second-guessing your own true self? In this encore of a favorite episode, our guest is Adrian Booher - an author, mental wellness advocate and mom. She knows this people-pleasing life all to well! Rebecca talked with her and she shared how she climbed out of this pit that was causing her so much anxiety. She also talked about learning to delight in your unique gifts instead of living for the approval of others. As always, you can find our host, Rebecca Hall Gruyter at the www.RHGTVnetwork.com or at www.yourpurposedrivenpractice.com. Our guests are also online. Adrian's online home is: https://adrianonlife.com.
About our guest:
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