In this episode of Shadow Work, WTF?, we’re flipping the narrative on ADHD and showing you how to not just manage it—but thrive with it. If you’ve ever felt like your brain was working against you, especially in the world of business, this episode is here to prove that your ADHD brain might just be your secret weapon for wild success.

I’m joined by Alexis, the unapologetic “Tough Love Coach,” who has been helping neurodiverse clients like you get their lives and businesses together for over a decade. We’re talking about how to work with your ADHD, not against it, and sharing the exact strategies that will help you ditch perfectionism, overcome procrastination, and build a life you love—without trying to be neurotypical.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone who’s tired of feeling like their ADHD is holding them back. Spoiler: It’s not. You just need to know how to harness it—and we’re here to show you how.

00:00:08 - Welcome to the ADHD Success Revolution

• Meet Alexis, the “Tough Love Coach,” and prepare to reframe everything you thought you knew about ADHD and success.

00:02:29 - Alexis’ ADHD Diagnosis: The Turning Point

• Alexis shares her diagnosis story, the struggles with medication, and how she found clarity by embracing her neurodiverse brain instead of trying to fix it.

00:09:27 - From Rock Bottom to Six-Figure Success

• Discover how homelessness and a health crisis pushed Alexis to transform her life and build two six-figure businesses—using her ADHD to her advantage.

00:20:23 - ADHD & Trauma: The Untold Story

• What if your ADHD is rooted in trauma? Alexis shares a provocative take on how trauma may play a bigger role in ADHD than we realize—and how healing it can unlock your potential.

00:27:14 - Overcoming the ADHD Trifecta: Procrastination, Perfectionism, and Dopamine Chasing

• We dig into the ADHD brain’s biggest struggles—procrastination, perfectionism, and the constant need for dopamine—and Alexis shares strategies to break these cycles and get results.

00:36:35 - The Power of Nervous System Regulation for ADHD Brains

• Why traditional productivity hacks don’t work for ADHD brains—and how nervous system regulation can be the game-changer you need to focus, get things done, and thrive.

00:48:05 - Redefining Failure: The Fast Lane to Success

• Caitlin and Alexis wrap up by offering practical strategies and next steps to help you manage your ADHD and start thriving—both in life and business.

Resources Mentioned:

• Follow Alexis on Instagram: @thetoughlovecoach

  
  



• Listen to Alexis’ Podcast: XOXO, Your Tough Love Coach on Spotify and Apple Podcasts

  
  



• Follow Alexis on TikTok: @thefailurediaries

  
  



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