Episode 26: “I’m Tim, and I Was a Disney Dad”
Description
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Yes… Katie finally let a man on the podcast! And what a conversation it is.
If you’ve ever wished your partner understood your experience better — or wondered why he parents the way he does — this episode will give you powerful insight from the other side of the stepfamily dynamic.
In this episode, Katie talks to Tim, who brings a rare double perspective: he grew up with a stepmum, and he is now the parent of a daughter with a stepmum of her own. Tim is frank, funny and refreshingly honest about the emotional rollercoaster of trying to be a good dad, a good partner, and a good man inside a complicated family setup.
Tim opens up about:
- Realising he was a “Disney Dad” — and what it cost his family
- The moments that forced him to face uncomfortable truths about his parenting
- Trying to balance loyalty to his daughter with loyalty to his partner
- What it’s like to love two people who sometimes need different things from you
- How being a widower added layers of complexity he never expected
- The work he and his (now) wife have done to rebuild trust, teamwork and unity
- What he wishes stepmums knew — and what he wants men in this situation to understand
This is a warm, vulnerable, and eye-opening episode — one that will help stepmums feel seen, partners feel understood, and couples feel more like a team.
In This Episode We Explore:
- What being a “Disney Dad” looks like from the inside
- The emotional bind dads feel between their partner and their child
- How widower dynamics affect stepfamily relationships
- Why stepping up isn’t the same as stepping back from your kids
- What helps when partners aren’t on the same page
- How stepfamilies can rebuild connection after conflict
- What real accountability looks like for dads in blended homes
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Keywords:
Disney Dad, dad perspective stepfamily, widower stepfamily, stepmum feeling unsupported, stepfamily dynamics, blended family parenting, stepdad insight, stepmum podcast, co-parenting challenges, stepmum support
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You’re not alone — and you don’t have to figure out stepfamily dynamics without support.



