The number one question we get as a divorce attorney, coach, and mediator is: “How do I actually get divorced?”

In this episode, we’re breaking down your options—from doing it yourself to hiring a full legal team—plus everything you need to prepare before you make a move.

We’ll walk you through:

The 3 main divorce pathways: DIY, mediation, or lawyering up (and hybrid combos)

What financial, legal, and personal documents to start gathering now

The truth about housing, refinancing, and temporary support realities

How to avoid rushing the process and making costly mistakes

Why your post-divorce comeback starts with smart prep

We’re sharing real advice and personal stories to help you understand your options and avoid the “cheap now, costly later” trap.

💡 Links + Resources:

Need help gathering your documents? Grab our Free Divorce Prep Checklist

Curious about alternative divorce solutions? Check out the Divorce With Clarity Coaching program

Looking for referrals to a divorce mortgage specialist? DM us @mom.lawyer.divorced

If you're sitting in confusion, trying to Google your way through the chaos—this episode will ground you, inform you, and get you moving in the right direction.

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