Hey Harvesters!!

We’re back with another episode and today we’re talking about reparenting ourselves. 

Reparenting ourselves really taps into inner child healing and some ego death. Our inner child wants to do nothing more than protect us when we‘re in survival mode, from things that have happened in our childhood, and even presently.

I’ve been very open about the relationship with my mother and when I started doing the work how things shifted within our relationship.  I‘ve been on an ongoing journey of reparenting myself and with each cycle I move through, I’m able to recognize areas that continue to need healing. And that was my wounded inner child. But I’ve learned along the way how to reparent myself.

HOW DO I REPARENT MYSELF?

• I started caring for myself. I know who EYE am and how to honor myself. Self awareness has been one of the main things that’s helped me through my journey of self development and it’s helped me to improve my relationships, especially the one I have with myself.
  
  


• I started making authentic decisions for myself. Operating in a place of codependence really helped me to understand the types of relationships I gravitated towards and the one the I had with myself. I now know that if it doesn’t feel right, I’m not doing it!
  
  


• I started being a little more selfish. I wasn’t rude, but I started enforcing boundaries that should’ve been set a long time ago. I started proving to myself that I’m first. 

With reparenting, accept how you feel and validate yourself. Celebrate when you show up for yourself and your inner child. Always ask yourself “What do I need in this moment?”

Happy Harvesting!