Episode 84: Why You Can’t Let Go: The Psychology & Neuroscience of Holding Onto What Hurts You
Description
Have you ever known something was bad for you—a relationship, a job, a habit—but kept going back anyway? In this episode, we unpack the hidden psychology and brain science that keep you stuck in cycles you know aren’t serving you. By the end, you’ll not only understand why you cling to what hurts—you’ll leave with practical tools to start loosening that grip.
In this episode, we explore:
The Psychology of Holding On
Sunk Cost Fallacy — why leaving feels like failure instead of freedom
Cognitive Dissonance — the mind’s tricks to justify staying stuck
Region Beta Paradox — why “not bad enough” situations keep you trapped
Intermittent Reinforcement — the most addictive reward schedule in the brain
Nerd Alert- The Neuroscience of Addiction to Pain
Dopamine, prediction error, and why unpredictability feels so intoxicating
Brain regions like the ACC, VTA, and nucleus accumbens that wire you to chase what hurts
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