Girly law of power #29: Stop being afraid of being alone
Description
Society tells us the major “accomplishments” in a woman’s life are getting married and having kids. Both of which are actions that bring people into her life. Unfortunately, most of what’s celebrated in women is about distracting us from our power and finding ourselves in other people. On top of that, there’s so much fear instilled in us: “Who’s going to take care of you when you’re old?” “Your biological clock is ticking!” “Who’s going to protect you?” “You’re happy now but what about when you’re 50 and alone?”
There’s only ONE thing guaranteed in your life: your relationship with yourself. So why is it that so many women are terrified of being alone?
In this episode we discuss:
- How patriarchy uses tools like urgency and fear to spook us into dependence and distraction
- The difference between being single and being sovereign
- Why fearing being alone is a way of living on borrowed time
- 4 ways to deprogram our fear of being alone
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.
Love, Neeki
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🎙️ About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:
- Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage
- Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small
- Stop letting guilt and shame control you
- No longer feel depleted in your relationships
- Apply psychological strategies to get what you want
- Understand human nature so well, you'll always win
👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.
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