In this episode of the Couple Cure Podcast, we dive into the complexities of intimacy (OUTSIDE the bedroom) when Jay was in active addiction, the challenges of seeking validation, and the impact of hidden lives on self-worth. Through personal stories, we discuss the hardships faced due to perceived inadequacies, and how addiction can distort the perception of love and intimacy. We also set the stage for further exploration of what true intimacy means as they heal together in future episodes.





00:00 Intro and Question

01:24 For Jay intimacy looked like (The Problem)

02:15 What Jay was seeking

02:50 How Lori was already giving it

05:01 The REAL reason "Lori didn't affirm me!"

06:09 Why Jay could not believe Lori's words

10:55 Some MESSED UP THINKING

17:19 Another "Intimacy" Jay was addicted to



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To Rebuild Trust - https://thecouplecure.com/contact-me/

To Recover from Betrayal Trauma - https://pornpainhealed.com/contact-me/

To Recover from Addiction - https://porniskillingme.com/contact-me/

To Say Thanks ("Tip Jar") - https://buy.stripe.com/8wM6pe74F9LsdkA8ww



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Who is This Channel For?



If porn addiction has you stuck--whether you want freedom as an addict, or you want the pain to stop as a betrayed spouse, or you need trust rebuilt in your relationship--this podcast can help. Our marriage was nearly destroyed by Jay’s porn addiction, but we found ways to make life and marriage much better than before. Now, as Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, we’re using those best practices to help you find the peace, joy and love you’re seeking.



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