Jay confesses something he’s never told anyone before: One way he lied to keep his addiction hidden. (Hint: it’s one thing some addicts do to keep their secrets.) He’s also asked if he thinks that tactic would have passed a polygraph. We also share a few techniques that might help in this situation. And stay until the end to see us in a real-life moment.





Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

0:31 What is one lying technique Jay used that he’s never told anyone about?

2:15 Would he have passed a lie detector test?

2:50 Some other addicts do this too (the difference between openness and honesty)

4:48 Solution: A way to (possibly) know if he’s lying this way*

5:39 Solution: One way to get to the truth*

7:13 Solution for addicts: A way to rebuild trust (BUT…)

10:40 When Jay would use this lying technique

13:34 Business trips used to scare Lori, and two things that changed that sinking feeling

14:50 The lighter side of us (BTS)



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To Rebuild Trust - https://thecouplecure.com/contact-me/

To Recover from Betrayal Trauma - https://pornpainhealed.com/contact-me/

To Recover from Addiction - https://porniskillingme.com/contact-me/

To Say Thanks ("Tip Jar") - https://buy.stripe.com/8wM6pe74F9LsdkA8ww



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Who is This Channel For?



If porn addiction has you stuck--whether you want freedom as an addict, or you want the pain to stop as a betrayed spouse, or you need trust rebuilt in your relationship--this podcast can help. Our marriage was nearly destroyed by Jay’s porn addiction, but we found ways to make life and marriage much better than before. Now, as Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, we’re using those best practices to help you find the peace, joy and love you’re seeking.



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