DiscoverPretty PhilosophicalHow Your Savior Complex Is Ruining Your Relationships
How Your Savior Complex Is Ruining Your Relationships

How Your Savior Complex Is Ruining Your Relationships

Update: 2025-08-22
Share

Description

In this episode, we explore why the urge to 'save' others—be it friends, partners, or family—can drain your energy and disrupt your peace. Acting as an emotional sponge does not make you more virtuous or loyal; rather, it can lead to resentment, burnout, and fictitious narratives.


We discuss:


  • How your savior complex impacts relationships

  • The disguise of people-pleasing as empathy

  • The fine line between caring and overburdening yourself

  • How to plant seeds of change without imposing on others' lives


Listen on Spotify or Apple.



0:00 : Intro: You don’t get peace from saving people
1:18 : People-pleasing vs projection
3:38 : The false storylines we create
4:19 : Why fixing others ruins relationships
5:04 : Empathy vs savior complex
7:00 : How to show up without carrying everything


#saviorcomplex #relationships #people-pleasing #empathy #emotionalburnout #caringbalance




See show notes: https://inlet.fm/denee/episodes/68a36afa0d6f07ccac1ce785

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comments 
00:00
00:00
1.0x

0.5x

0.8x

1.0x

1.25x

1.5x

2.0x

3.0x

Sleep Timer

Off

End of Episode

5 Minutes

10 Minutes

15 Minutes

30 Minutes

45 Minutes

60 Minutes

120 Minutes

How Your Savior Complex Is Ruining Your Relationships

How Your Savior Complex Is Ruining Your Relationships

Pretty Philosophical with Denée Seaton