How to Become Unrecognizable in 90 Days
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If you're looking for a total transformation over the next 90 days, this is for you.
In this podcast, I’m sharing the seven steps I’ve used to reinvent my self-image. I’ll walk you through how I’ve shifted my limiting beliefs into expansive ideas to become an elevated, confident, and unstoppable version of myself.
You’ll discover what it takes to be unrecognizable and why the benefits outweigh the discomfort, how transformation is both external and internal work, and why your choice today will allow you to welcome the new year strong.
Episode Details:
00:00 - Introduction
00:14 - Stop delaying your dream self
01:47 - Becoming unrecognizable is a challenging process
03:00 - Why 90 days are perfect for reinvention
03:54 - My experience of self-transformation
05:40 - Be radically honest with yourself
06:44 - Choose one focus
07:42 - Paint the vision of who you want to be
09:13 - Put a red velvet rope around your life
11:10 - Uplevel your environment
12:52 - Change your appearance
15:38 - Commit to a daily practice
16:44 - Make the choice now!
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Episode Transcript:
Welcome back to another episode. I'm so excited that you're here because today we are going to talk about how to become unrecognizable over the next three months, because the reality is a lot can happen in 90 days.
I want you to imagine that it's December 31st of this year and you are at this party and at the party are two different versions of you. Version one is basically the you of today. Same mindset, same habits, same results. Then there's another version of you who decided to become unrecognizable. I'm talking about a whole new mindset, whole new way of being, a whole way of living.
Which one would you choose? Now here's what most people do around this time of the year. And I know this because I used to do this myself and it's, we wait until the beginning of the, year we tell ourselves things like, oh, the kids are going back to school, the holidays around the corner. I'm just going to be too busy. To pursue my dreams, to pursue what's really important to me. And here's the problem with that.
Stop Delaying Your Dream Self
Every time you wait, every time you say to yourself, I'm going to just delay my dreams a little bit. I'm gonna wait until things calm down. All you're doing is perpetuating a self-image of a woman who doesn't see her dreams as important enough right now. You're perpetuating the self-image if a woman, who's always delaying her life. And remember with self-image, you're always going to subconsciously prove yourself true.
And that is exactly why I'm going to challenge you. If you are feeling called for more, if you know that there's an area of your life where you're settling, where you really want to up level your life, I'm gonna challenge you to do it over the next 90 days. We're not going to wait. We are going to commit to our own reinvention.
What does it mean to be unrecognizable? Well, if you just look at the definition, it means no longer being able to identify something because of a major change. It can be appearance, it can be attitude, it could be state. And so as it relates to this, it's you being so different that the people around you are like, wait, who is this? And even for you, it's your looking at yourself and being like, I cannot believe that this is who I am.
Becoming Unrecognizable Is a Challenging Process
But the reality is, when you go through this process, it is so uncomfortable because you've probably been so accustomed to being who you're being. Your brain's going to tell you things like, this isn't who you are. Who do you think you're fooling? Like, don't you know what used to be? You're just pretending you are faking it.
And that is the voice that if you listen to, it's going hold you back. But when you start to understand that you get to decide who you are, and this isn't about you losing yourself. It's really about you, losing the parts of you that were never yours in the first place. They were never parts that you would have chosen on purpose.
But for whatever reason, conditioning, habits, repetition, you now think that's who you are. But guess what? You get to change that. You get too. Redecide in every moment who you want to be. So why 90 days?
Why 90 Days Are Perfect for Reinvention
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