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How to FINALLY close the gap between your current self and your ideal self

How to FINALLY close the gap between your current self and your ideal self

Update: 2025-08-11
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You don’t have to hustle yourself into the ground to create the life you want—but you also can’t just wait for it to magically fall into your lap. In this episode, we're exploring the sweet spot between toxic productivity and hopeless surrender, and how to close the gap between your current self and your dream self without burnout or perfectionism.

We’ll break down the psychology behind why we get stuck (hello, learned helplessness), the nervous system science that explains why more motivation isn't the answer, and the identity shifts that make change stick. From identifying what stage of change you're currently at to expanding your window of tolerance, this conversation will help you step into your desired reality with more calm, clarity, and confidence—one aligned action at a time.

If you’ve ever thought, “I know what I want, so why am I not doing it?”, this episode is your permission slip to build a life that fits you, not the other way around.

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How to FINALLY close the gap between your current self and your ideal self

How to FINALLY close the gap between your current self and your ideal self