How to Motivate and Inspire
Description
After a leader turns around the performance of one of his direct reports, he and his coach explore how it happened. And how to make it stick.
Core ideas in the episode:
- Workplaces improve when positive feedback is present
- Our natural human negative bias is a barrier to giving positive feedback.
- Learn to notice when things go well.
- Tell people how they are helping solve the puzzle that is work.
- Research says the most effective feedback ratio is 4-to-1, positive to developmental.
Positive Feedback might sound like this:
- Recognize what’s going well – and be specific
- Appreciate how it’s helping solve the puzzle
- Express your thanks
Developmental Feedback might sound like this:
- Describe what happened – and be specific
- Explain how it affects the puzzle solving effort
- Express your hope for a different outcome
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This episode is tagged in three categories in our podcast library:
Perception – How You Perceive Others
Related episodes to listen to are:
119 - Creating Devoted Followers
212 - How to Coach Your People
255 - How to Deepen Relationships at Work
260 - How to Guarantee Psychological Safety
Thanks, as always, for your reviews!
Until next time, thanks so much for listening.
From The Look & Sound of Leadership team




