In this episode of the Choose Your S.O.U.L. show, we sit down with Haddie Djemal. a Media Trainer & PR Consultant, Emcee, Speaker and Brand Spokesperson.

Haddie grew up between worlds. With a Tunisian father and Sudanese mother, her identity never fit neatly into a box—too light for some spaces, too different for others. In Texas, where you were expected to be either Black, white, or Mexican, she constantly felt the pressure to shrink, code-switch, or stay silent. Even when she pursued journalism, she was told neutrality made her credible, which meant watering herself down to be accepted.

Haddie always knew she was meant for the spotlight. From five years old she dreamed of television, stories, and connection. That dream clashed with the immigrant script of “doctor, lawyer, engineer... or disgrace.” She tried law, but it didn’t stick. Acting and media did. Yet just as things started flowing, self-sabotage crept in. She packed her life into bags, moved to Tunisia for love, and found herself in the middle of a revolution with no safety net.

Coming back broken and lost, Haddie hit a deep depression until her father asked her the question that changed everything: “Why can’t you be as fearless for yourself as you were for someone else?” That was the spark that shifted her from surviving to choosing herself.

Her journey is messy, bold, and deeply human. Perfect for anyone ready to stop conforming and write their own story.

What We Cover:

• Trading law school for acting and media, despite cultural pressure to conform
• Moving to Tunisia, only to face a revolution and a painful wake-up call about love and self-sabotage
• Returning home in depression until her father’s challenge reframed courage and choice
• Redefining “identity crisis” as “identity obsession,” freeing herself from labels
• Spiritual awakening that reshaped how she views story, community, and growth

This conversation dives into identity, belonging, fear, and freedom and why your story, raw and unfiltered, is your power.

Connect with Haddie:

• Instagram: @haddiethehost
• Podcast: The Growth Game (coming soon)
• Coaching & Consulting: Storytelling, brand amplification, and media strategy

We hope we can inspire you on this journey with us 🫱🏼‍🫲🏽

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