Our Thoughts on Divorce
Update: 2025-12-24
Description
Jayson and Ellen explore divorce through an evolutionary and cultural lens. Why does divorce feel easier in some cultures than others? Why do some couples stay together but never truly thrive? How do you know when someone is the wrong person, and how do you honestly assess whether you did everything you could to make the relationship work? They also examine when divorce does not actually make things better and why taking responsibility for your role in relationship failures matters more than blame.
Timestamps:
- 1:36 - Human evolution and divorce
- 4:38 - Cultural differences in the ease of divorce
- 9:44 - Not all couples that stay together thrive
- 15:00 - How do you know when someone is the “wrong” person
- 18:42 - Did you do everything you could to make things work?
- 21:55 - When divorce doesn’t make things better
- 26:16 - Consider your own role in relationship failures
Links:
- Ellen's Instagram
- Jayson's Instagram
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