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Why Never Fighting Is a Problem

Why Never Fighting Is a Problem

Update: 2025-12-11
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Jayson and Ellen explore what it really means when couples say they never fight. They break down why fighting is anything that needs repair, not just overt conflict, and why couples who never fight miss important opportunities to learn. They look at the types of couples who avoid conflict, how much fighting is too much, which couples can work through frequent conflict, and the deeper issues that can be masked by a lack of fighting.

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  • 1:39 - When couples say they never fight
  • 4:11 - Fighting is anything that needs to be repaired
  • 9:50 - If you never fight you never learn
  • 12:50 - Types of couples that don’t fight
  • 17:04 - How much fighting is too much?
  • 20:27 - What kinds of couples can overcome fighting?
  • 22:52 - Issues masked by a lack of fighting

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Why Never Fighting Is a Problem

Why Never Fighting Is a Problem

Ellen Boeder and Jayson Gaddis