“The problem is to believe that the assumptions we make are the truth.”

– Ana Melikian















In this episode, the host, Ana Melikian, dives into the intricacies of the third agreement from Don Miguel Ruiz's renowned book, “The Four Agreements”—Don't Make Assumptions. Ana illustrates the detrimental effects of holding assumptions as truth and how this mindset limits our potential.







Ana emphasizes the importance of finding the courage to ask questions and clearly communicate with others to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and unnecessary drama. She skillfully parallels this agreement with the previous one, “Don't Take Anything Personally,” highlighting how both are rooted in the projection of our internal realities.















Using relatable scenarios—like sending an important email and awaiting a response or interpreting social interactions at a conference—Ana demonstrates how easy it is for assumptions to take over and lead to negative mental chatter. She encourages listeners to adopt mindfulness to let go of these assumptions and underscores the value of clear communication as a way to prevent false beliefs from clouding our interactions.







For those looking to expand their self-awareness and master the skills of better communication and present-mindedness, this episode is a must-listen.







Let's dive in!















This week on The Mindset Zone:









* 00:00 Introduction and Welcome







* 00:53 Brief Recap of Previous Agreement







* 01:21 Introduction to the Third Agreement: Don't Make Assumptions







* 02:33 The Natural Tendency to Make Assumptions







* 04:01 Real-Life Scenario: The Unanswered Email







* 06:18 Real-Life Scenario: Conference Interaction and Assumptions







* 08:35 Understanding Assumptions as Thoughts







* 09:42 The Mindfulness Approach to Letting Go of Assumptions







* 10:58 Clear Communication: Making Lives Easier







* 11:57 Preview of Next Episode: Always Do Your Best







* 12:15 Conclusion and Call to Action

































Meet Your Host:







Ana Melikian, Ph.D., advises leaders on how to amplify impact while avoiding burnout. She is passionate about teaching others how to unlock their human potential using simple and powerful approaches such as her P.I.E. method.















𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐭?







Set a time to speak with Ana HERE and learn about your (or your team's) burnout risk and how to enhance well-being, effectiveness, and teamwork!















Connect with:









* Ana on LinkedIn

















Resources:









* Book: The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz