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Parenting with Connection-Based Rewards

Parenting with Connection-Based Rewards

Update: 2025-01-27
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Discover a revolutionary approach to parenting that goes beyond traditional reward systems as we welcome Raeleen Davis, a certified Synergetic Play Therapist, to CAYA Conversations. Are you ready to transform how you connect with your child by emphasizing emotional growth over tangible rewards? Raeleen and Lauren Ruben, a Licensed Professional Counselor, untangle the mysteries of positive reinforcement and its profound impact on nurturing a strong parent-child bond. By focusing on acknowledgment and validation, rather than praise and prizes, you’ll learn to foster your child’s internal motivation and emotional resilience.

They'll guide you through the journey of shifting from behavior-based rewards like sticker charts to connection-based experiences that meaningfully engage your child. The episode lays out practical strategies for encouraging learning while fortifying your relationship through simple yet powerful connection-based rewards. Whether it’s sharing an extra story or indulging in extra playtime, these experiences can nurture a lasting sense of accomplishment and motivation in your child. Tune in to explore how this thoughtful approach can support your child's development into a confident, self-regulated individual.

Positive Reinforcement Resources:

https://www.gottman.com/blog/mindful-parenting-how-to-respond-instead-of-react/

https://www.earlyadvantagedcc.com/early-advantage-parent-resources/the-impact-positive-reinforcement-has-on-a-childs-behavior/

https://playgrounddepot.com/blogs/news/positive-reinforcement-a-guide-to-nurturing-your-child-s-behavior

https://www.parents.com/kids/discipline/strategies/how-to-practice-positive-discipline-at-home/

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Explore the various services available in our community to support parents and students facing social and emotional challenges at https://chs.clarkston.k12.mi.us/counseling/emotional-support

For Talk It Out episode questions contact David from Giesken Counseling Services - Clarkston at 810-626-5191.

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For more information on Clarkston Area Youth Assistance visit https://caya-mi.org/ or call 248-623-4313.

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Parenting with Connection-Based Rewards

Parenting with Connection-Based Rewards

Jamie Graves